Two speakers use the metaphor of an unlocked cage to argue that most limitations are self-imposed. Leaving requires confronting fear and accepting discomfort, even when the familiar feels safer.
If you feel stuck.
In your life, remember this.
The cage.
Is not locked.
So whatever.
Imprison.
That you have put.
Yourself in, whether it be a circumstance.
A situation.
A relationship, a job, money, whatever it might.
Be, it feels like.
A prison that you're in a cage and that there is no way out. The cage is not locked. You are the only one that can.
Choose to exit at.
Any time you want. And what that.
Requires is.
Growing not.
A pair of balls, but a huge.
Fucking labia.
Because that shit is tough.
And going down a road of the unknown, that is terrifying. It's scary.
Especially if you're.
A control freak and you need to have everything planned that is going to stunt you.
It's about going.
In the direction getting.
Out of the cage.
Knowing that you can step out.
It is a process.
It's going to take time and it's going to suck, and it's going to be painful and it's going to be uncomfortable and you're going to want to.
Go back because.
Your brain wants to.
Go back to where it feels safe.
And comfortable, even if it's not safe.
It feels safe.
Because it knows. Because your brain, it's always analyzing.
So it likes the familiar. So you've got to break.
The familiar and get past the uncomfortable point. And you can, you can do hard things. You've done hard things.