Nathan BarryFounder and CEO, Kit · Founder and CEO at Kit

Is Your Personal Story Your Most Overlooked Growth Tool?

15 Oct 2026 · 1 min

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In this motivational talk, the speaker recounts a memorable moment from a Shark Tank/Dragon's Den style competition where a nervous young contestant, after being asked why he should be on the show, shares his deeply personal origin story: he was raised by his grandmother after his parents left, she died from an obesity‑related disease, and his grief led him to prison. The raw, emotional narrative moves the judges, who each cite his story as the most compelling reason to back his business, ultimately leading him to win the competition outright. The speaker uses this anecdote to argue that everyone has an origin story that can be a powerful growth tool, and warns against discarding those personal histories in favor of more conventional pitches.

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I was invited to be part of this Shark Tank Dragon's Den competition. And this beautiful young man came up and he was petrified. And I just looked at him and I said, I don't get it. Does the world really need another Jim? And he looked at me and I said, so, but why you? And he goes, well, my personal story doesn't matter. And I said, well, it matters to me. And then finally he said, my parents left when I was a baby and I grew up with my grandmother. And she meant the world to me. And when she passed away from a disease related to obesity, my life fell apart so badly that I went to prison. With tears rolling down his face, Nathan, he goes, and no one should lose somebody prematurely to something that can be prevented. He brought it into his pitch. He got to the final. He was picked by every single judge. They all said he had the most compelling reason to start this business. And he won the competition outright. We all have origin stories, and a lot of us leave those origin stories behind, and I think that's a mistake.