A short spoken monologue by Nir Eyal arguing that children naturally detect parental hypocrisy around technology use, so parents must model the behavior they want (be "indistractable") to raise indistractable kids. The clip also notes that the book contains a section on raising indistractable children placed after guidance on fixing one’s own behavior and briefly mentions the "displacement hypothesis."
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You may not know this, but your child was born, as every child is born, with these tiny invisible antennae. You can't see them. They're there, but they have these tiny invisible antennae and they come pre installed with a hypocrisy detection device. I had it when I was a kid. You had it when you were a kid. If you saw your parent being a hypocrite in any small way, you detected that right away. So we cannot tell our children to get off technology, stop using screens so much, get off your phones while we're checking email and Facebook. As we're saying it, it does not work that way. We have to be consistent. We can't be hypocrites. So if you want to raise indistractable kids, the very first step is to be an indistractable parent. I think it's actually the most important part of the book is this section on how to raise indistractable kids. But I put it after the section on here's how to fix yourself. So it's absolutely critical that you figure out what's your needs. Displacement hypothesis.