Nir Eyal argues that whether a belief is true matters less than whether it helps you. He offers a ten-second exercise: when a limiting belief shows up, ask if it serves you or hurts you, not whether it's accurate. This shift replaces unhelpful beliefs with ones that drive better action.
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Stop asking yourself if your beliefs are true. That's the wrong question. We spend enormous amounts of energy trying to prove or disprove what we believe. I'm terrible at public speaking. Is that true? Maybe. But is it useful? Absolutely not. A belief that's technically accurate but makes you smaller every day is still a belief worth replacing. The beliefs that drive the most successful people aren't necessarily the most accurate ones. They're the ones that generate the most useful action. So the next time you catch yourself you're thinking a limiting belief, don't argue with it. What you want to do is just ask yourself, is this belief serving me or hurting me? So that question, it's a small tiny shift, but it's one of the most powerful tools in Beyond Belief, and it takes about 10 seconds to apply.