Nir Eyal explains how to make ads and emails feel helpful instead of annoying. The trick is timing: send a trigger when someone is already feeling bored, anxious, or lonely, and it becomes relief instead of spam.
We do this to our customers all the time. Try our product. Here's an offer. Here's an email. Here's an ad campaign. Look at this. Look at this. Pay attention. All the time. So the reason we want to always look for the negative internal state is because that's when people are looking for a solution. So as product designers, the way we design an external trigger that is magic, that works, that is appreciated versus one that's annoying and spammy is one word. And that one word is context. The closer together you can couple the internal trigger, that moment when you feel that itch, boredom, anxiety, loneliness, fatigue, uncertainty, whatever that internal trigger might be, the closer together you can couple that feeling with the solution, the external trigger that says, hey, here's the relief for that problem. That's when it's magic. That's when the user says, oh my goodness, that's exactly what I need right now.
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