How I Quit My 'Safe' Job To Start A Business (the truth no one tells you)

Everyone on the Internet says, follow your dreams, start your business, take the leap. But what they don't tell you is that there's a lot of gravity on the way down. In today's Q and A Wednesday, I'm going to answer Grant's question. How did you make the leap from your job to starting a business? I'm going to share how I left my teaching career to start my first business. And I'm not going to hold back. I'm going to give you the raw truth, the good, the bad, the ugly of how I left my teaching career and started my first business. My first career was teaching. I was an English teacher. I taught English as a second language. My first five, six years I was in the classroom teaching my students. But later on, I became a manager. I was the head of department, and then I became the chair of my department at the university I was working at. But education was my jam. I had a good paycheck. I had great benefits. I had a long summer break. But all my free time was spent building businesses on the side. I was building side hustles, small experiments. Some made me money, some didn't do so well, and I failed. But I learned a lot in that process. Even during my long summer breaks, I would invest that time into trying to invest in my businesses and try to become better at this game of entrepreneurship. But I never actually made enough money on the side with my businesses to replace my income. I. But one day I was really frustrated in my job because I was the chair department. I was actually the acting chair, because the chair that was there before, the person, the manager that was there before, left the position and I took over his responsibilities. And I was doing it for 18 months. And I didn't get a promotion officially. I wasn't getting an increase in pay. That's a long time. A year and a half. So I decided to talk to my boss, the dean of the university, and I went to her office and I said, hey, do you think I'm doing a great job at my position? She was like, like, you're doing a fantastic job. You're creating. Creating so much value to the university and doing amazing work. And I was like, okay, great. So why am I not getting this promotion? What's going on? It's been 18 months. And she was like, you know, I got a level with you. I know that the director of the university actually wants to make an outside hire for this position. And in that moment, I was crushed, right? I was frustrated and angry. And I say in that moment, my Frustration outgrew my fear. I, I felt like, man, I have no power over my future. I can work as hard as I want and at the end of the day, somebody else, my boss, my superior, is going to make a decision that's going to change the trajectory of my career. I don't have the power to elevate myself in my life and in my business and or my professional life. You know, a lot of people say that action is preceded by inspiration or desperation. I feel like desperation is really the biggest motivator in life when you have to make a change. So I wanna start there because if the pain is not strong enough, it's really easy for you to just continue to do what you're doing. So you gotta really want to leave your current situation and you're willing to sacrifice or even take steps back in your lifestyle in order for you to pursue something new. Now that's not the only reason why people don't make the leap because they're not frustrated enough or it's not a must have. But. But a lot of people don't take the leap because they think that jumping out of their job is like jumping off a cliff. Right? And that's not the truth. The truth is that you need to start thinking about building a bridge. Now I was in teaching, in education. It's very hard for you to resign and leave in the middle of the year. You actually have to give six months notice. And that was great for me because that gave me six months to have a plan to build that bridge so that I can have a safe landing. The trap is to think binary. Think. I either have to have a job or I have to be a full time entrepreneur. So that mindset of I'm going to quit my job, have no paycheck, super scary. That usually stops people in their tracks. Don't do that. Okay. What you want to do is you want to start thinking, okay, I'm going to leave my job in six months or a year. Let me work backwards. What does that look like? First of all, when I leave my job and I have my full time business, how much money am I making? How much money do I actually need? All. All that kind of stuff. So I'm going to walk you through, step by step, how I did it and how you should do it, how to quit your job and start your business full time, and how to build that bridge. Real quick. If these episodes help you in any way, hit subscribe. It helps us keep bringing you practical business insights three times a week for free. Thanks Step number one, and that's the side hustle stage. You want to build a proof of concept first. Before I said I quit at my job, I had a side business that was making me money. It was profitable. It wasn't making me as much money as my paycheck. Okay? But I wasn't putting as much time in that business as I was at my job. So that wasn't really fair. In fact, I was making about two to $3,000 a month. Let's call it $2,500 a month. But I was putting in like eight hours a week into this thing. Just spare hours in the evening or sometime in the weekend. So if I was putting in eight hours a week and making $2,500, you know, logically, if I put in 40 hours, I should be able to make $10,000, right? I know it's not exact math, but I had a proof of concept. I was building websites for friends and family, for small businesses. And I was showing and proving to myself that, hey, someone is willing to pay me for this product, for this service. So don't quit to start a business. Start a business so you can quit your job. That is something you need to remember. This is especially important if you are not single, right? If you are a family person, you have a significant other, you have kids, you have people around you that rely on you. You need to prove to them as well that, hey, what you're building on the side has traction, has potential, and if you put more time and effort into it, it can only grow. Step two is the Runway stage. You want to save six to 12 months of expenses so that if for any reason you leave your job, you still can cover your expenses. At least six months. I call this your escape fund. When I did it, it was my chance to be able to get give myself six months to survive without a paycheck. Every dollar I made from side projects went into a separate account. That money was oxygen for me when I left my job. It gave me permission to focus on what I really want to focus on my business now super important when it comes to the Runway stage. You can extend your Runway. You can save time and save this money faster if your expenses are lower. I personally drastically change my lifestyle when I became a full time entrepreneur and I left my job and became a full time entrepreneur. I decided to slash my expenses more than half. I sold my car, I lived in a small apartment, I took mass transit. It just took the subway to get around. I walked. I barely bought anything for myself. You know, Nicole, And I, when we were starting out, we barely bought even clothes for ourself or even entertained ourselves running trips. The first couple of years of full time entrepreneurship was, was really frugal. And the reason why we did this is because if you're going to cut back when you're making this transition, know that this is temporary, okay? You're going to have plenty of time to spend on luxury goods later, right? You can have the Mercedes and the Rolex and the fancy vacations and the, you know, beautiful clothes. When you have an abundance of wealth, right? That money that you're saving is oxygen. It's fuel. It's your chance to, to think clearly so that you don't have to worry about, you know, the roof falling over your head, right? You have some time to start growing your business. Step three is the transition stage. You're going to quit in phases. What I would recommend is you try to reduce your workload. So for example, if you're working in your job, ask your boss, is it okay if I work four days a week, 10 hours a day? So you're still doing 40 hours, but you're doing 10 hours a day. That gives you now three days to work in your business instead of two on the weekend. The next step could be a sabbatical where you ask your boss, can I take three months leave and then come back? Right. In those three months, you might find that your business is thriving and growing and you don't need to go back to your job. Some people, like in Australia, have what's called a long service leave. So after being in a company or in a job for over 10 years, you get a full year off or a series of months off where you can just take the time off and basically focus on something else other than your job. You might want to even consider moving from full time to part time to your business. More time, but also to have a little bit of side income from your job along with your business. So you don't need to do all or nothing, all right? You can transition out of it and start seeing your business grow with that extra time. Step four, the commitment stage, is where you burn the boats. At some point you have to cut the safety rope and you got to say, this is the last day of my job, right? And once you've handed in your resignation like I did, every decision becomes sharper and it becomes a necessity for your business to succeed. It's one of the best days of my life actually is when I handed in that resignation and decided to leave, I knew my Last day at work and I was so excited because everything became clear. Everything became about building my future, my business, becoming a better entrepreneur. Every decision was easier because I wasn't torn between my job and my ambition to become a great business person. So this is a day that should be celebrated. It should be a day that you really embrace because it's the day where you start your new life. Step five, the leverage stage. This is where you start buying back your time as fast as possible. The first hire made was a VA because that freed up so much time. I think it freed about 20 hours of my week of all this admin tasks. We're talking about calendar management and emails and even like spreadsheets and doing finances, bookkeeping. All that kind of stuff can be outsourced to somebody that, that can do some data entry. And a lot of stuff can even be outsourced with some AI tools like fixer AI, which is a great email AI tool that can kind of save you some time, about two or three hours a week even. So think about how you can start offloading when you start making some money and you can afford your first hire. And these hires, by the way, are not that expensive. $501,000 a month, depending on if it's part time or full time. And you can really start leveraging your time smarter by freeing yourself up to work on the things that actually bring in the cash. So as you can see, the leap into entrepreneurship from your job isn't a jump, okay? It's a sequence of small hops that add up to momentum. Right? You don't need the courage all at once. You need the courage to commit that this is what you're going to do. Okay? And then once you've committed, I'm going to do this. Follow the steps I outlined and follow through. The consistency matters every single day. You need to wake up with the courage to follow through on your plan. This is what I want you to do as a challenge. I want you to think about leaving your job and want you to map that bridge this week. Right? Step one, write down how much you need to live per month, the minimum, right? Not what you spend right now. What can you cut back on? You know, think a little bit outside the box. What if you downsized where you live? Or maybe you downsize the cars you have, or maybe you stop paying payments in your car and bought a used car. All these things are temporary, right? You're going to be doing this for a year or two and then you're going to rebound back even stronger. In your business, hopefully. And that's what I experience. You can't think so short term. And how painful it is right now short term. So step one, write down how much you need minimum to live per month. Step two, list what income sources you can create to cover that number. Meaning that in your business, what are some ways that you can be able to start building out income streams, whether it's products, services, support, all kinds of things you could charge for. And then step three, I want you to set a date. Set a date, even if it's a year out from now, Put it on your calendar, circle it and start moving towards it. Take the steps forward to make it happen. Because you're gonna feel so empowered. And it's almost gonna give you this extra energy boost every morning when you wake up, once you set that date. Cause you know that every day you wake up, you're closer to that day. You gotta put your mind to it. You gotta put your ass in gear to make sure that you hit that date ready to go. Once you have a timeline and a plan, the fear actually turns into focus. It allows you to be laser focused and motivated to make it happen. I used to think that quitting my job would be the scariest day of my life. It turned out to be one of the happiest days of my life. It made me feel so empowered. I felt in control again. I felt like the security of a paycheck wasn't that appealing anymore. I actually wanted to build something significant. I wanted to build something that made me feel alive, made me feel like I had meaning again in my life. And I started to realize, wow, I can now have no cap on my earning potential. You know, when you're in a job, there's a cap to how much you can earn, right? In business, there is no cap. You can continue to add more value to the world and continue to earn more. That's exciting. So before I go, I want to leave you with this. You don't need to be reckless to be brave enough to quit your job and start a business. You need to build a bridge. You need to have a plan and you need to execute every day. It's not like binary. On, off. No, it's. I made a decision. Let me take the steps. Each step I take gets me closer to the other side of the bridge. That's how you make the leap the smart way. If this episode gave you any clarity, share it. Share with someone who is standing on the same edge as you, who's thinking about quitting their job, who maybe shared their dream of starting a business with you. Share this episode with them. They'll thank you for it. Also, if you want to continue to learn from me, you want to join my three Things newsletter. It takes five minutes each week and it gives you real insights and tips to become a better entrepreneur. Just go to 100- MBA-NET Newsletter to sign up. Thanks so much for listening. If you made it to the end of the episode. You're my kind of person. You're a completionist. You're somebody that likes to invest in themselves, which I love. And you're serious about growing your business, which is what I am serious about growing my business, even till today, you know, 20 years later. What it tells me about you is that, hey, you're somebody that wants to make something happen. You want to make a change, and you're willing to take those steps to change every single day. So thanks so much for being here with me. Continue to tune in so that you can continue to grow and make those changes. All right, I'll check you in the next one.