People change only when frustration with their current situation outweighs fear of the unknown. Most never reach that tipping point, so they stay stuck. The speaker argues that unbearable discomfort is what finally makes someone willing to take risks.
You will never change until something happens. Whatever it is in your life that you want to change, it will never change. Trust me, it will never change until your frustration outgrows your fear. It only happens when you are so fed up with the current situation that anything is better than this. You are willing to take the risk to sacrifice to do the work to change it. Because the current state is unbearable. And most people don't make a change in their life, don't accomplish things because they never get to the point where their frustration grows, their fear.
