This is a motivational Wednesday video by Pathman Senathirajah (Chief) addressing QNet affiliates. He urges viewers to postpone Valentine’s celebrations so they can focus on maxing out sales on Friday, issues a concrete short-term ask (find two direct referrals by Friday via presentations), and promotes the QNetWorld mobile app ("download me"). He recounts time spent in Bangkok with Dato Sri Vijay and emphasizes the importance of having — or becoming — a tough, loving mentor ("Coach B") who pushes people beyond rationalization and mediocrity. Tactical guidance includes doubling planned presentations/trainings and outreach (WhatsApp/messages) over the next few days to achieve rapid growth.
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Greetings to my unbelievable Valentine's v family all over the world. Guys, as you know, in a few days, it's going to be Valentine's Day. But it happens to be on Friday. All right?
Our closing day.
So please tell your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, mother in law, everyone that you're going to postpone Valentine's Day to Saturday, where everything is less crowded and less complicated. And you will treat them with your beautiful commission that you earn on Friday. But this Friday, don't be distracted by Valentine's Day Day, but focus on falling in love with max out. Focus on falling in love with hitting your highest check this Friday. And the only gift I want. Because I love you and I hope you guys love me. All right? The only gift I want is by this Friday, starting from the time you watch this Wednesday message. Find two guys. All right? Just push yourself out of your comfort zone, go crazy, pull out the name list, do whatever it takes, and give me the greatest Valentine's Day gift ever. That is you guys finding two direct referrals as a product a result of Presentacion. Presentacion. Presentacion. All right? But to all the ladies out there, all the mothers, even the mother in laws. All right, to all of you guys, Happy Valentine's Day. From the bottom of my heart, I love you guys. All right, and this year is going to be unbelievable for each one of you. It's going to be a year where I'm going to be hearing so many max out stories from around the world. This is my wish. And guys, I'm sitting here today in the office with a T shirt that just got made for me with the qnet app on it with the words download me. Because we are on a mission to be the number one direct selling company in the world with the highest downloads of its app and usage of its app around the world. This is a goal that I want to achieve. The app is rocking. For those of you who don't know the app have never used it, you're missing out. It's so practical for you to sign up, monitor your genealogy, monitor everything, withdraw your E cards for usage. It's basically a fantastic one stop shop. So wherever you are right now, watching the Wednesday message, pick up your mobile phone, go to your app store and please Download me. Alright? QNetWorld. Alright. That's why I'm wearing this T shirt today. So proudly to download the app. Okay, guys, now this Wednesday, I just finished spending two weeks in Bangkok with an amazing team from the V from qnet, from the network. Spent a lot of time With Dato Sri Vijay, as I mentioned in my last Wednesday message, but most importantly this week, I want to talk to you about something that you guys have stopped doing. Now, if you understand network marketing, even if you're brand new watching this, the timing is perfect. Even if you have been with me for 10 years, as my downline doesn't matter, alright, I want to share with you the secret of my relationship with Dato Sri Vijay. His effectiveness as an upline, coming down to one philosophy, all right, of being able to push people. Now, please understand this. Every single person who signs up in your network, they are coming from a life. They are coming from a world where they do not push themselves, where they are not pushed because they are coming from an environment of survival, paying their bills, go to work, come back home, go to work, come back home, go to a comeback home. They are no longer in. In that mode of winning at all costs, growing at all costs, doing anything at all cost. Because life sucks out that passion from you.
Life sucks out that power from you.
But if you remember in your younger days, whether it's sports, even exams, I know, hard to believe. And girls or boys you fell in love with, you were a go getter. You were passionate about every goal that you wanted to achieve. You had ambition, you believed in your potential. You pushed yourself harder than even your coach could, even your parents could in certain aspects of your life. And then you went through this journey of life where you are no longer required to excel, where you are no longer required to be on top of your game, to. To be the best of the best. And the human race. From the time you start working until you retire and die, 99% of the human race remains mediocre. That means there's no need to rise, there's no need to be the best you can be. And this is a disease that is happening all over the world today that you don't hear enough stories of Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg, Dato Sri Vijay Ishwaran. The stories are becoming less and less.
Because the human mind forces you to.
Embrace me being mediocre.
The human mind forces you to rationalize.
Your failures or your lack of success.
That this is who I am. This is okay.
All right. You hug yourself okay. And you say it's okay to be mediocre. You compare yourself to people who are lesser than you. And you said, I'm doing okay compared to that person. And this is a disease in the human race.
Now, you crossed over from that life.
Of disease into qnet. The challenge is when you came into qnet, you brought that mindset with you.
That you guys are not pushing yourself hard enough. That you guys, most of you watching this Wednesday message right now, all right, I don't know how badly you want max out and I don't know how much work and effort and presentations and sleepless nights you're willing to invest to achieve that goal of max out because you also rationalize that I tried my best.
I got rejected. My market is difficult. My downlines don't listen to me. My uplines are not there for me.
This is a concept of a disease called rationalization. Ascusitis that will destroy your potential of maxing out. Will destroy that possibility of you maxing out. Now what you need is what I have. I have an upline who is my mentor. But Dr. Srivijay has this amazing ability to push me constantly out of my comfort zone. He doesn't allow me for one second to even switch off to, to celebrate my success because he refocuses me on a bigger success. Now if you don't have an upline.
Like that, I feel sorry for you.
Now if your upline doesn't push you. And most uplines are afraid to push.
Their downlines because they are afraid their downlines will leave them switch off, get uncomfortable with this business, guys.
You did not sign up to buy a lollipop. You signed up to buy a Ferrari. You didn't sign up to take a bus. You signed up to fly first class. That financial freedom was your ultimate goal. And you are not built for financial freedom. You need to be pushed every day, every hour, every second by somebody.
So please, after watching this Wednesday message.
Pick up the phone, call your upline and give them permission. Confront them for not pushing you hard enough. Confront them for not caring about your dream enough. Confront them.
Tell them, please be my Coach B. Don't be my coach A. Coach A.
Is this loving?
I love you, you love me. Relax.
Have a drink. All right. Don't run so fast. Are you tired? Take a break. Coach B is wake up. Smell the coffee. You're not working hard enough. Push yourself harder. Go, go, go, go, go, go, go.
Now you don't have a coach B. I have a coach B. And the reason why I am who I am today, the reason why I.
Have success in my life is because Dato Sri Vijay never allowed me, alright, to surrender to rationalization, never allowed me.
To listen to morons out there.
He told me to define myself, to.
Define my journey, to define the success.
That I really want and do whatever.
It takes to achieve it.
He used to call me at 2 in the morning, 6 in the morning, wake me up, pull me into meetings if I had nothing to do.
When he called, I got hammered. And he would remind me that I'm not hungry enough for my dreams.
That I don't love my mom enough. All right. That I'm bullshitting myself and bullshitting the people around me.
All right.
That how you live defines how serious.
You are about your dreams.
And you know the truth.
I know the truth. There are days where you don't do anything. There are days where you completely switch off.
There are presentations you avoid. There are moments where you don't push yourself because you are physically tired which is an impossibility in network marketing because all you need is your hand to do the presentation and your mouth to speak.
So guys, pick up the phone today. Confront your uplines, give them permission, invite.
Them into your lives to push you to be the best you can be. This is the ultimate purpose of an upline.
And I'm blessed to have Dato Sri Vijay as my upline.
Now let's say your upline is completely not the pushing type and the loving type.
I pray you don't have upline like that. You need a balance of care and love.
But you need much more pushing. You need much more of a reality check. You need much more of a Coach B. You need much more of somebody who.
Doesn'T allow you to give excuses but.
Pushes you and is there by your side. Not like a manager who pushes you.
And go back home and watch TV and sing Kumbaya with your mother in law.
I'm talking about pushing you and standing.
By yourself like Datu Sri Vijay. He's the general who leads his army from the front. The not push them from the back. Alright?
And if you don't have an upline.
Like that then you become your coach B. All right.
The moments I cannot get in touch with Dattasvi, he's on a long trip.
The times where our time zone is different, I don't succumb and become a useless moron.
I decide learning from how he has.
Pushed me all these years, I become my coach B. To that I push myself harder than anyone else. I talk to myself and tell them.
That today you can do another 10.
WhatsApp, another 100 messages to be sent out.
You can record another five videos. You can stay awake another few hours and have another few meetings and cancel your plans on this weekend and meet somebody who you could positively impact their lives.
So I need you also to wake.
Up and smell the coffee.
That if you don't have a coach B, then you become your Coach B. Recognizing the fact that your limitless potential is in your hands. That you have to decide when you want to unleash it. You have to decide how you want to be remembered when you die. You have to decide what legacy you have to leave behind. And you have to decide how important Max out is to you, your family, your loved ones. How important that dream you found at Vcon is to you. Is it complete bullshit or are you serious about it? Because if you're serious about your dream, then you don't have the luxury of achieving it in 15 years. You got to achieve it now. And that requires you to push yourself harder than anyone else can and be your own Coach B. Because if this is your potential, every one of you, you are performing here.
Alright?
Maximum I would give you watching this video right now is 10%. The 90% is where you should be pushing yourself. That your performance, your results, your achievements, your behavior, your walk, the talk should be here and you're right now here. And if nobody is going to push you, then allow me to push you on this video. But more importantly, when I'm not around in front of your face, push yourself. Recognize this fact that you can be your greatest coach B. That you can push yourself. If your purpose is great enough, your discipline is in place, and there's no.
More worth excuses in your life, then.
Push yourself now, this week, week seven. Push yourself harder than you ever push yourself before. If you plan to do five presentations, do 10.
If you plan to do 10 trainings, do 20. If you plan to reply 100 WhatsApp, send out 200 WhatsApp. All right? And just get out of that comfort.
Zone this week and I promise you 20, 20 will be different. Just the next three days, push yourself beyond your comfort zone. Push yourself beyond any limitation you have instilled in your own bloody head. Get it out, write and be your own coach B.
