Two boys grow up in poverty. One stays poor, the other becomes ultra-successful. The difference isn't what happened to them, but whether they keep replaying it in their heads. Stop rewinding the past and you stop being stuck.
In this picture you see a couple, you see two young boys growing up in extreme poverty. Then when they're adults, one of them is still poor and one of them is ultra successful. Listen for a second. You're not screwed up right now because of what happened in your childhood or years ago or this that went wrong or that went wrong. You're screwed up because you keep reminding yourself of what happened in your childhood, of what happened last month or last year or two years ago.
