You can't grow by blaming your family, mentors, or colleagues for where you are. The speaker argues you're both the problem and the solution. Stop the blame game, reflect on what you could have done differently, and take the opportunities in front of you.
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If you realize that you are the problem, then you can change, you can learn something, and you can grow. So many people blame other people for why they're not making it, right? They talk about it, my mom, my dad, my upline, my sideline, my this, my that, Prime Erica won't do this for me, all this stuff, right? We have to realize that it starts with us, right? You are the problem, but you are also the solution. So once you stop blaming others and figure out what we can do better, Nuts, I feel like that's one of the things we've done really well is even when maybe it wasn't your fault or a recruit goes crazy on you, right, there's some people out there that can do some pretty hurtful things, we always looked at ourselves and thought, okay, they might be nuts, but maybe what could we have done differently to fix that, right? So the biggest thing, you guys, is not playing the blame game because we all have the same opportunity here, right?