Abuse Is an Unconscious Pattern that Cam Be Ended - Rebeccah Silence

Abuse cycles occur because we learned abuse cycles occur. There's no abuser out there that wasn't abused, and there's no victim out there that didn't experience abuse at a young age and then decide on some unconscious level. And the word unconscious is critical here, right? Because nobody chooses abuse. Nobody wants to be an abuser, and nobody wants to be a victim. And no one wants to live in the horror and the terror and the fear that, you know the abuse is inevitably going to continue, suck the life out of you, kill your spirit, and leave you in a state of going through the motions just trying to survive. Nobody chooses that path. However, that path does get passed on.