Rebeccah SilenceWorlds Leading Love & Emotional Healing Coach • Speaker • Author • Creator of The Unsilent Woman

Abuse Isn't Love – Rebeccah Silence

11 Oct 2022 · 1 min

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A short spoken excerpt from Rebeccah Silence's YouTube video 'Abuse Isn't Love' delivering direct, supportive affirmations: the speaker insists that abuse is not the victim's fault, that victims are not crazy, and that abuse cycles—often normalized in family systems—are damaging and not expressions of love. The excerpt warns that abuse can be disguised as love and challenges the idea that it must be tolerated.

Nothing is wrong with you. The abuse isn't your fault. And you're not crazy. And you're right. You're not the one that something's wrong with. You're right that these abuse cycles aren't okay and are extremely damaging and have no business in your life or in the lives of those you love. You're right. And it's not your fault. And it's not love or a norm that you just have to accept and tolerate and live with, even though it has likely been a norm in your family system. And the thing about abuse is it can be disguised as love.