Rebeccah SilenceWorlds Leading Love & Emotional Healing Coach • Speaker • Author • Creator of The Unsilent Woman

Are You Carrying Toxic Patterns From One Relationship to The Next?

28 Jul 2023 · 1 min

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A short reflective talk (YouTube video) by Rebeccah Silence about how people can carry toxic relational patterns from one relationship into the next when they haven't done inner healing. The speaker warns that unchanged patterns lead to repeating the same conflicts—"different person, same pain patterns."

Every relationship you've ever had doesn't need to last the rest of your life. What we don't want is to take these toxic patterns with us. What we don't want is to say thank you next. But I haven't done my inner work to heal my patterns of proving punishment, reward, being part of what goes along with relationships. So now I take all that with me. Play it out again. Fighting with ghosts again. Different person, same pain patterns, different person, same toxic dynamics.