Rebecca argues that the love you receive mirrors the love you give yourself. Set boundaries, ask for more, and heal first. Become the partner you want to have, and your relationships get a real chance.
So how does self respect and clear boundaries make love feel more open, intimate?
Yeah. Well, you're not gonna get the amount of love you give other people. You're gonna get the amount of love you give to yourself. So when you respect yourself, you attract people that are respecting themselves too. And regardless of relationship status, all I want for you is don't settle, don't say yes to what's not good enough for you. Ask for more and give it to yourself so you can receive it. And in a way where it's not needy and you just feeling like, I'm just gonna get heartbroken again. So, okay, what you're saying is if you wanna feel lighter and safer, more love, you gotta give yourself permission and heal yourself first. You've gotta give it to yourself, what you want from them, and then be the partner you want from them. So many of us are waiting. Do you deserve my best? We pick and choose when you deserved it. And that's a punishment reward dance. That's a disaster. So be your best, give your best to you, give your best to them, and that's how your relationship stand a chance. Thank you, Rebecca. Really interesting.
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