A short motivational YouTube monologue by Rebeccah (Rebecca) Silence arguing that people do not need external circumstances to change in order to live fully; instead they can choose who they will be in each moment, practice intentionality, and treat life as "just happening" rather than for/against them. The speaker invites listeners to reinvent themselves, stop waiting for circumstances to change, and actively create desired circumstances from present reality. The message emphasizes acceptance, personal responsibility, and practical prompts for fresh starts.
If you didn't need any part of your life to be different, different than it was, different than it is, what that means is, what if you were willing to allow life to be what it is while you choose who you are going to be? I'm Rebecca Silence with your Monday healing message that you do not need life to be different. And then you get to be different. You get to reinvent. You get to reevaluate and refresh who you're being in any moment you find yourself in. You don't need a bad day to turn into a bad decade. You don't need a bad moment. You need to turn into a bad day or even a bad hour. What if what I'm saying is true? You don't have to believe me, but what if that possibility exists for you that you've literally got everything you need in any and every moment that you find yourself in to choose who you're going to be? I think one of the biggest problems that clients that I work with have is that they're so attached, they're so committed to life being how they think it should be. It's a death sentence for your soul, in your spirit, to be so convinced that what your ego and what your limited thinking is telling you is the way it should be. We've got so much potential to design our lives how we want them to live, how we want to live, and even in the midst of life not going our way. And when I say you don't need life to be different, I'm not saying that that means you have to be accepting of the unacceptable or surrendering into circumstances and deciding that how it is can't shift. I'm saying, you know, a lot of personal growth experts and gurus will tell you life is happening for you. I disagree. I don't think life's happening to you, and I don't think life's happening for you. I think life's just happening. I think life goes our way and then it doesn't go our way. And none of that is about you or about me. It's just life happening. And then the beauty of that is you get to see what is healed when a former trigger shows up and it doesn't hurt anymore. You get to see where you've still got healing work to do when life shows up and kicks your ass, because those moments are inevitable. And the good news about the moments where life is kicking your ass, the good news about that is that you are still here. You are still alive. You still have an opportunity to grow and reinvent and again to choose to who you're going to be. You don't need life to be different. You need to figure out how to be more intentional and awake and aware of what you want, where your life's headed and who you're going to be in a moment. What if you didn't need life to be different? How would that change your life? I want to hear from you in the comments. I'm Rebecca Silence, creator of healing is possible. And I want you to understand that your life isn't what you need to control, meaning the way life is. What you have the power to control is who you're going to be and even the simplest moments you know, if you're someone out there who's bored, what are you doing? There is so much life to live. There is so much life to live. And I'm not saying that to insult you. I'm saying there is no reason for you to be bored. There is life for you to be living. And as we're transitioning back into more and more options, more and more possibility, while the world is still in a lot of ways turned upside down, you have an opportunity to decide. Fresh start. Who am I going to be now? Get intentional. Meaning do you even know why you are choosing what you are choosing? Or are you just blowing in the wind and going through the motions? No one needs to be blowing in the wind and going through the motions. In the year 2021, we all just got our asses kicked and we all get to decide how we want to live day to day when regardless of circumstances. That's the key. Needing life to be different means that we need circumstances to be different and we can't control that, but we can control the circumstances that we're going to create from the circumstances that we're in now. How much excitement would there be in people's day to day lives if they recognized how powerful they are and how equipped they are to create circumstances that they want in the face of the current circumstances exactly as they are. You are so much more powerful than I guarantee you are giving yourself credit for. And I want your life to be a blast and I want your life to be a ride that you want to be on. Not a grind, not a bummer, not a you know something you are waiting for. How many of you are watching and you are waiting for your life. How about start living now regardless of the circumstance because it is not happening to you, it is not happening for you. It is just happening. And then what is it going to take for you to really choose to live. I believe with all my heart that your life is precious. I believe with all my heart that you have got all the time you need to get the most out of this life you're in now. If you live into the moments without resisting them, without wishing they were different, without being attached to how you think it should be, it just is what it is. And then who are you going to be? Make that a game. And make it a game that you are committed to winning because you're worth it. And I want you to get every last drop of joy and love and excitement out of this perfect and precious life that you're in now. Quit waiting for the circumstances to change for you to live. Quit wishing it were different. It's sucking up your life. You have. You. You have now. It's enough. I'm Rebecca. Silence. Creator of healing is possible. And I'm here to tell you that you don't need life to be different. Just live. See you soon. Bye.
