Rebeccah SilenceWorlds Leading Love & Emotional Healing Coach • Speaker • Author • Creator of The Unsilent Woman

No One Should Ever Do This

7 Aug 2023 · 0 min

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A brief monologue advising people in romantic relationships to maintain their individual vision and independence. The speaker warns that sacrificing personal goals leads to resentment and unintended codependency, and encourages pursuing one’s best life alongside the relationship.

Now that you're in relationship, you've been waiting for it your whole life. Don't give up your individual vision for who you are and where your life is going. Because if you do, you'll be resentful. If you do, you're codependent without meaning to be. If you do, life is going to feel really small, really fast. So part of having independence and relationship is you independently in the pursuit of your best life.