Rebecca Stylens says don't file for divorce while emotionally dysregulated, guarded, or triggered. You'll carry unresolved patterns into your next relationship. Get emotionally clear first, or you'll repeat the same painful cycles.
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Before you file for divorce. Stop scrolling and watch this. For many of you, you think divorce is the only way out, the only path back to independence, freedom, joy, and peace again. But here's what I need you to know. If you are not emotionally clear and regulated with an open heart, you ain't ready for divorce yet. This is what nobody else is going to tell you. I need you emotionally clear and regulated and your heart open again before you even consider filing for divorce. Because if you get divorced and you're emotionally dysregulated, triggered and guarding and protecting your heart, you take your pattern with you. You'll attract the same person with a different face and have the same damn experience. Relationships show you where you're healed and where you're not. I'm Rebecca Stylens and I created the practice of emotional healing as a smooth, simple path back to your heart being open and you emotionally healed and clear and the age you actually are in the moment, not a stuck age bringing your old wounds with you into the relationship, hoping this person is the cure. They're not going to be the cure, but they are the access point. All I need you to do for me from here is. Is follow me for more. Take a breath. You've got this. Let's take on your healing.