Rebeccah SilenceWorlds Leading Love & Emotional Healing Coach • Speaker • Author • Creator of The Unsilent Woman

This Is the Real Reason Your Relationships Don't Work.

21 Jul 2023 · 1 min

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A short motivational/psychological talk arguing that interpersonal conflict often reflects personal "triggers"—emotional responses rooted in past events—rather than the partner's present behavior. The speaker frames triggers as "ghosts from your past" that cause people to react to old wounds, creating stuck emotions and misalignment in relationships. The excerpt focuses on welcoming triggers and recognizing their origin.

Wait a minute. Wait a minute. We want to welcome the triggers. We want to bring it on approach, and here's why. Your triggers, they run your life. Your triggers, they ruin your experience of relationship so often because we think it's this person that's doing something to us or isn't showing up or isn't being careful enough or loving enough or fulfilling our needs enough. But what's really going on is this person is a ghost from your past. We fight with ghosts when we are in any type of misalignment or upset. Here's what's going on. We are at a stuck age with stuck emotions because of an event that we likely don't even realize is the culprit.