Rebeccah Silence argues you can't control whether family changes, so focus on knowing yourself instead. Claim your power by deciding what's acceptable, setting boundaries, and being okay regardless of how others act.
You're going to need to be the one to do your inner work, to have a different experience. So often we put it on our family that we need them to be different. We need them to change, we need them to xyz. And then we can be okay. But I want you to head into this season more than okay. Fully relaxed into your power. Knowing who you are, knowing what you want, knowing what's acceptable, knowing what's not, knowing. Knowing what you're going to do with the unacceptable, and knowing you're okay no matter what. That is exactly what I want for you. And you might be thinking, uh huh, yeah, right. Not with my family, Rebecca. Well, here's the thing. If I can do it with my family, you can do it with your family. And it isn't always going to end perfectly or the way you wanted it to.