Kids watch how you react to what they find online more than they hear your words. Stay calm and present, never judgmental, and keep telling them their mistakes won't change how much you love them.
How are you responding to your children telling you what they're seeing? Because often we'll say, go ahead, tell me anything. Tell me everything. But our kids are watching our reaction way more than they're listening to what we're saying we can handle. So if we're modeling to our kids now we're afraid because you're telling me your insecurities are being validated. Our kids are being trained. We're not actually safe to go to. So the most important thing is to be that safe space. Letting your kids know that there's nothing you can do to make me love you less. There's nothing you can share with me that's gonna be a threat that we can't get through together. We want your kids to feel safe coming to you. That's the most important piece.
That's brilliant. And also not distracted, like you're right there with them, right? You present? Yeah, honey, I'm listening.
And I can handle this conversation. Yeah, right. I can handle that. You are feeling like you won't fit in no matter what. I can handle that. Basically, every time you scroll social media, your insecurities are being validated instead of your greatness. Let's talk about
it. Yeah, that's brilliant.
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