In a live SuperMom Spotlight event, an emcee introduces Dr. Aman Bhatiala, a relationship and life coach who, despite not being a mother, profoundly influences parenting perspectives. Dr. Aman shares a bilingual, deeply personal narrative about an eight‑year wait for pregnancy that culminated in an ectopic pregnancy, emergency surgery, and intense emotional pain. She reflects on how disappointment revealed her deepest desire, leading to a spiritual awakening and a redefinition of purpose beyond motherhood. While recovering in the hospital, she discovers Riddhi Deorah’s masterclass, initially feeling out of place but ultimately receiving mentorship that transformed her confidence, professional earnings, and sense of mission. Dr. Aman outlines three pivotal shifts—discovering purpose, uncovering leadership, and expanding vision—attributed to the community’s support. She praises Riddhi as a guru who creates leaders, not followers, and emphasizes that parenting is about shaping the emotional foundation of humans, a role anyone can fulfill. The segment ends with a poetic, motivational chant celebrating collective empowerment.
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This next speaker is truly going to surprise you because she's not a mother yet, and yet she shapes the way that mothers think, she shapes the way that mothers feel, and the way that they raise their children. Now you might wonder, is that even possible? There is one person who's going to come up here on stage and who's making it possible every single moment. She's a relationship coach who over the last 2 years in this EPH family has gone way beyond labels, and she has truly stepped into that massive impact that she's creating constantly. Because she understands something very, very powerful, that parenting is not just about raising a child. It is about shaping the emotional foundation of a human being. Do you agree with me? Parenting is about shaping the emotional foundation of a human being. That's powerful. You don't need to be a parent. You don't need to raise children alone to be able to understand how parenting impacts and how it should impact, right? And I think she is making it happen every single day. When this foundation that we just spoke about is very, very strong, that is the only time when families don't function, they flourish. They thrive, and let's hear from the kind of insightfulness, from the kind of impact, from the kind of inspirational stuff that she's been doing in her life. Are you willing to hear from her? Are you sure? उधर पीछे तो बिल्कुल नहीं आवाज़ आ रही मुझे। वहाँ पीछे से तो बिल्कुल भी नहीं आ रही। और एक साथ तो बिल्कुल ही नहीं आ रहे। That's more like it. So stand up on your feet and with the loudest round of applause and cheer, please help me welcome the deeply transformative, the very wise and trailblazing Dr. Aman Bhatiala. Louder, louder! I can't hear you. Come on!
There is a quotation in Punjabi. जननी जने तब पगत जन, ज़्यादा आता जा सूर, नहीं ता जननी बाज रहे काहे गवाए नूर। What does it means? कि अगर एक औरत ने सोच लिया कि मैंने बच्चे को जन्म देना है, तो उसको either God conscious child means भगत जन दाता means एक great giver और सूर सूर means जो अपने धर्म के लिए लड़ सकता हो ऐसा बच्चा ही पैदा करना है और कोई नहीं करना and how many you felt कि आपने बच्चे तो पैदा किए थे but ऐसी qualities रिधि मैम डाल रही हैं हमारे बच्चों में I am Dr. Aman Fatehala, and my story is all about when destiny writes something bigger. The world tried to tell a village girl to stay limited, but destiny had already written something bigger. I come from a backward village in Punjab, A place where girls were not encouraged to dream too loudly, where education for girls was often optional even today, where ambition in a woman was sometimes misunderstood. But even as a young girl, I carried a quiet fire inside me, a deep feeling that life was not meant to be lived in fear. But in purpose. I believed in growth, I believed in learning, and somewhere deep inside, I believed one day I would not just change my own life, I would help change the life of others too. The miracle I waited 8 years for आयुर्वेद में एक श्लोक आता है कि एक औरत सबसे ज़्यादा उस दिन खुश होती है जिस दिन उसको पता चलता है कि मैं प्रेग्नेंट हूँ। शायद हर औरत उस मोमेंट का वेट करती है। Years passed, I got married. Eight years went by and then one day the news I had been waiting for finally arrived. I was pregnant. After 8 years of marriage, that word felt like miracle. I felt emotional, I felt grateful, overjoyed. I began dreaming about tiny hands, about blue labbies, about raising a child who will grow up to become a role model for society. But sometimes life writes a different script. One day everything changed. It was an ectopic pregnancy. Emergency, major surgery, shock, pain, silence. My dreams were shattered in the hospital room. Have you ever experienced that kind of pain where the world outside continues but inside everything stops? The question that changed my life. I was a life coach. I had taught gratitude to others, but now I had to live it with myself. Lying on hospital bed, weak and hurting, I began writing gratitude. Not because I felt strong, but because I refused to become bitter. And there is saying कि आपकी लाइफ में दो सिचुएशंस होती हैं मोस्टली किसी भी आप सिचुएशन में हो तो दो सिचुएशंस होती हैं One is frustration, अगर आप fail हो रहे हो, and another is disappointment. Frustration कुछ नहीं, वो भी आपने method apply किया, वो successful नहीं हुआ, but there are another methods. But मेरे case में वो नहीं हो रहा था. मेरे case में it is truly disappointment. What does it mean? कि अब तुम कुछ भी कर लो, तुमारे according result नहीं आ सकता. And जब हमारे according result नहीं आता, तो किसके अकॉर्डिंग आ रहा होता है? And very importantly disappointment में अगर आपने सिर्फ दो चीजें सीख ली, one is कि कहते हैं जो disappointment होती है, वो तुम्हारी deepest desire बता के जाती है तुम्हें। And second thing अगर आपने disappointment को accept कर लिया, fully accept कर लिया, तो वो आपको divine redirection देके जाती है। And lying on the hospital bed, I am thinking, what will be my deepest desire? I began asking myself a question again and again. Why do I need a baby? Why do I need a baby? Why do I need a baby? At first, the answer was simple. I want to become a mother. But when I went deeper, my soul answered differently. I want to raise a child who wants to become a role model for society. And very importantly, at the same time, another voice came from within, a voice that changed everything for me. It asked me, can you raise only one child like that, or do you have ability to shape many? That moment changed everything for me. And finally, the light that appeared in my darkest moment. There is something I deeply believe that is also from Gurbani. This is, जैसो चंदा उगवे सूरज चढ़े हजार, ऐते चानन होंदियां गुरु कोर अंधार। What does it mean? If hundreds of moon and thousands of sun in the sky, but there is no guru in our life, life still remains in darkness. And that very day, in the middle of my pain, God showed me light. In the hospital itself, I saw an advertisement of Riddhi Deora ma'am. I was still in pain, Still recovering from surgery, still emotionally broken, but something inside whispered me, watch this, Aman. I entered her masterclass from my hospital bed. I could barely sit properly. My body was weak. At one point, I had to leave the session because of pain. But when it came to payment, I paid. Not because I felt strong, something inside trusted that thing. The moment I felt I didn't belong. I joined the community, I saw something unexpected. It was full of mothers. And suddenly, the pain returned. I am not a mother. Why I am here? I don't belong to here. I felt lost. I felt out of place. Even I asked, Riddhi ma'am, please refund. I don't want to continue. I am not a mother. But she refused. अरे अभी मुझे मैम से जब मैम सुना रहे थे मैंने कहा शुक्र है मैम ने मुझे नहीं बोला I will slap you. She refused and she said something to me I will never forget. She told, Aman, you didn't come here, God sent you here. Don't force yourself to watch the courses, attend the live session only. Whenever you feel ready, then start. That trust of Riddhi ma'am in one class only on me Shifted everything for me. Slowly, I began emotionally ready. I began watching the sessions, and something powerful happened. I realized something beautiful. कि अगर मैम कर सकते हैं, तो मैं भी कर सकती हूँ। इसके लिए मुझे मदर बनना जरूरी नहीं है। मैंने मैम के कहने पे एक्शंस लेने स्टार्ट करे। मेरी पॉडकास्ट वायरल होने लगी। And one day my brother called me. I will said in Punjabi what he said to me. He said, "अमन मिन्नू नहीं पता तू जन्म किसे नुदाएँगी के नहीं दाएँगी, but तू जीवन बढ़िया ज़्यादा नुदाएँगी।" And every session of Riddhi ma'am gave me strength, not just emotionally but professionally too. As I am life coach, I already had clients and many of them facing parenting challenges, and now suddenly I had a deeper perspective a wider understanding and a more compassionate approach. Until then, I already earned around 2.5 lakh from life coaching, but what ma'am had built, a systematic, value-based, powerful community, gave me something priceless. That is clarity. Clarity that I could build my own community. Clarity that impact is not about raising one child. Impact is raising many future leaders. And there are 3 shifts happen in me, many shifts, But there are powerful 3 shifts I want to share here. My pain found purpose. Earlier, I thought my story was a tragedy. But inside EPH, I realized something beautiful. My story was actually my strength. I discovered leader within me. Even as a young girl, I always wanted to create impact. मेरे पिंड दे लोग भी कहते हैं ना कुछ कहते हैं किसी बनना है कुछ वो दे हो कहीं। But I don't, I didn't know how to become that person. It was through Riddhi ma'am I discovered leader within me. My vision expanded. Earlier I thought my purpose is to raise a child. But today I know my purpose is to build conscious families and raise many future leaders. 3 things I deeply love about Riddhi ma'am as my mentor. There are many things, there can be a list of that things. But the most beautiful I realize is she creates leaders, not followers. Ma'am, today I am leader because of you. Many coaches create followers, but Riddhi ma'am creates leaders. As I already told, even as a young girl, I always wanted to create impact, but it was Riddhi ma'am who brought leader out of me. And this is my first speech in English because of Riddhi ma'am. She doesn't want anyone to depend on her. She wants every person in this community to find their own purpose, to step into their power, and to find their own possibilities. This is a sign of true guru. She shows up for the community with love. She is not raising just Rajvir, she is raising all our children. Because if she was not in our life, we will not this calm, this confident, this connected to our children. And our children can't become as beautiful human beings as they are becoming today. And through us, she is touching thousands of families. Great. And that love for the community is something you can truly feel. And that is most important, last one. She is a guru who creates more guru. A true guru never keeps light to herself. A true guru lights many lamps, and Riddhi ma'am is doing exactly that. She is helping so many of us to discover our purpose, step into our power to guide others. She is lighting so many of lives with joy, energy, and possibilities. And for that, I will be forever grateful to you, ma'am. Once I thought my purpose is to raise a child. But today I know my purpose is to raise many future leaders, to guide women, to support families, to build communities. I come from a backward village where girls are not encouraged to study, but today I stand as a woman who educates others. Once I cried in the hospital room, and today I hold space for others in their darkest moment. Once I asked, why me, God? And today I say, thank you, God, because without that pain, I would never met my Guru. In the last, I want to say my story is not about loss. My story is about awakening. It is not about motherhood denied. It is about motherhood expanded.
Bright hearts beating loud, we're owning the night. No more doubt, we're ready to shine. This is our moment, the stars align. We feel the beat down to our feet, moving together strong and complete. This is our moment, we rise, we shine. This is our journey, your heart and mine. No holding back. We cross the line. Together we glow. Together we rise.
