Siddharth RajsekarFounder, Internet Lifestyle Hub · Turn Your Knowledge into Freedom.

Don’t be so hard on yourself!

17 May 2026 · 1 min

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After bankruptcy and relocation forced a fresh start, the speaker struggled with self-doubt about whether their potential would go unused. They tried coaching but felt they failed, questioning if they were only meant to be a host. Turning to someone named Bimal, who seemed at peace, only intensified their frustration with themselves.

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When the bankruptcy hit us, we relocated, moved out of our comfort zone city, moved out to restart our life. But I must tell you this, the big dreams never left me. I don't know what it was inside of me. You know, many times I used to tell him, I used to wonder to myself, will all this potential inside of me die unused? Will I die without having used any of this? That was a constant question that I used to ask myself as well as him, even before I started doing what I currently Just before the pandemic, I tried to be a coach, okay? And I did not match up to my own standards of being a good coach. And that is why I labeled myself as a failure. And I said to myself, maybe you're only good as a host or as an MC. Maybe that's what you're meant to be doing. And at this point in time, I want to share this. I think a lot of people might resonate with me. At that stage when I was feeling so unfulfilled, I turned to Bimal, and Bimal is feeling completely completely at ease, at peace. He was so calm, he was so happy with what we had. And how many of you have realized that if you're in that kind of a relationship, it frustrates you and angers you even more?