Stephen ScogginsFounder - CEO, Lion - Lamb Solutions · Founder CEO Unstoppable Solutions

If you feel like your losing value in yourself. #value #inspiration #heartfelt #foryou #love

28 Oct 2022 · 1 min

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A short, first-person monologue by Stephen Scoggins about interpersonal connection. The speaker states that people deeply yearn for honest connection and identifies four core needs—being seen, heard, valued, and appreciated—as central drivers of behavior and relationship quality. The piece reflects on personal fallibility (speaker admits not always meeting these needs) and emphasizes that addressing these needs improves relationships.

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Connection's a tough one. We all deeply yearn for an honest connection. We all want to be somebody else's object of affection. The worst thing that I feel like people can feel, and these are four needs that I believe that are real. From my perspective, every person needs to feel seen, they need to feel heard, they need to feel valued, and they consistently need to feel appreciated. And to the extent that you can do those well will directly tie to the relationships that you have. And again, I have zero problem telling you that I haven't always done it well, but they are important. You also have the same needs. Most of the decisions and behaviors that we make come from wanting to feel seen, heard, valued, and appreciated.