Boundaries for Gift Giving

5 Dec 2022 · 1 min

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In this short solo video, the speaker addresses a common holiday stressor: gift‑giving expenses. She emphasizes that most people enjoy giving, but financial constraints often cause anxiety. She advises viewers to set a clear, realistic budget for holiday gifts, stick to it, and assertively communicate their limits to family groups when expectations exceed what they can afford. She also suggests expanding the definition of gifts beyond material items, recommending experiences as meaningful, low‑cost alternatives. The overall message is to maintain financial boundaries while still sharing joy during the holidays.

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One of the most common things that I know people struggle with during the holidays is around gift giving. What about you? Is that a top stressor for you during the holidays? You know, I don't believe it's about not wanting to give. Most people really like to give. It brings us joy when we can give to others and bless others and see their excitement and their joy. But I think what I most commonly hear is it comes down to the finances. Many of us have a financial budget that we try to follow, and when it comes to all the parties and all the gift giving, it's hard to stay within that budget. And so I want to encourage you this holiday season Set an amount, set an actual budget of what you can afford to spend, and then plan within that. Don't go over it. Keep your boundary. If a family group says, hey, we're gonna do this dollar amount, speak up, use your voice and say, I can't do that dollar amount. And then also remember there's more ways to give than with financial pieces or items. We can give experiences too.