When two people disagree on values, their real priority often lies beneath the surface. Finding that shared priority lets them make the same choice anyway, even when their broader values differ.
So the priority is the thing underneath the position. And that's important when it comes to finding common ground because hiding within those positions could be something both of you share. And when that's the case, a shared priority allows 2 people to make the same choice no matter the entire universe of their values or that deeper understanding of what globally they think is right or important. So you can see where we can make some progress there.
