Two people discuss how major life decisions like buying a house or boat require both partners to actively choose to participate. Neither person can force the other into these choices, even in a committed relationship. Real change happens through joint discussion, not one person deciding alone.
Honestly, just riffing really quick off of what you had just said, like, yeah, you bought the house and you said we're moving, but at the end of the day, he still had a choice. You know, he still chose to continue on with you. Like, you always have a choice.
Like, I'm sure, I'm sure to a degree it was, we're getting a boat and we're gonna live on a boat and that's what we're doing, right? To a degree. But like, there was conversation, right? This is where we're gonna acquire the boat. This is what we're gonna do financially while we live on the boat. It's not like taking control or taking like that, that piece away from the person. Let's do this together.
