Caryn Meininger argues that feeling unworthy sabotages your effort, no matter how hard you push. Instead of asking "Am I worthy of this?" flip it to "Is this worthy of me?" The shift rewires your internal dialogue and stops self-sabotage.
And if it's not happening fast enough, what.
Happens? People give.
Up, or they try harder, and it still doesn't work because there's something subconsciously going on that is causing them not to feel worthy. It always comes back to the worthiness issue of, oh, I'm not worthy or deserving.
Right after we get that dynamic vision, the very next thing we do is going to look at that vision. Is that vision worthy of me? Is it worthy of my time and my energy and my excitement and whatever else I put into it? Is it worthy of me? Because we're not used to looking at things like that. We're used to looking, am I worthy of that? But that's not really the question we should be asking, is it worthy of me? That's where we start making some big shifts and.