Attraction Builders

Hey, what's up?

Coach John here. So basically, this Attraction Builders is great because it's one of those things that it's really a combination of the techniques, and it helps you focus on what to look for, and it really helps you improve your, your game in a different area. So definitely Check this out, pay attention. Because as you're going, I really assimilate having conversations as like a juggling act because you're thinking, okay, what do I need to do next? What do I need to say next? Is she feeling me? Is she not? And there's a lot of thoughts in your head. And so this lesson is meant to take away as much confusion as possible, to kind of streamline what to look for as far as like building attraction.

This should be one of the main things, but not everything, but definitely important.

Like, if you had to put this on a priority list, this will be up there. So enjoy this, guys. It's, it's fire. I enjoy this one a lot. So, um, yeah, check it out.

Welcome back, and today we're going to be talking about something that actually builds attraction, because in reality, there's going to be a lot of things that you're going to learn in The Attraction Method, but the things to focus on if you want to build attraction is in this module. So let's get into it. The first thing to pay attention to and get good at that builds attraction is eye contact. There are so many men that are just horrible with eye contact, largely due to the fact that they are nervous, so they look away and think about what they're going to say next. I get it, and I've totally been there. But when you hold eye contact and she's the one to break away, it is much better. And you'll be surprised of how well this works and why it works, because whenever you're holding eye contact and flirting with her and touching her, there's just this connection that is just being And that's going to take you further than just something that is just surface level. I don't know why, but I have brown eyes. Whenever I have good eye contact, I get compliments on my plain brown eyes. But that is her way of signaling that she is just really enjoying me looking into her eyes. Now the second attraction builder is actually very subtle, and a lot of men miss this, but it's actually being close to her. You might not think this is a big deal, but I encourage you to do this when you go out in public. Look around at the men and women that are talking to each other and see how close they are. If you observe correctly, you can actually tell who is a couple and who is just friends just off of the proximity for the most part. When you're close to a woman that you're talking to, it's actually triggering something in her mind in a subconscious way that you two can be a thing. This combined with any other attraction builder actually intensifies it, so don't sleep on this one. There's just a lot of guys that forget to get close to her or just too nervous to get close to her. You could stand close to her or sit close to her, and it just hits harder when you look into her eyes because it just works. works so well. The only thing with this one is just calibrate to the woman. So if she backs away a little bit, give her space and don't react to it. Now the next attraction builder is great too, but it takes some guts to pull off, and that is touching her. I don't want to get too detailed in this because I devoted a whole module to this. Start light touching her on her shoulder, lower back, and just go from there. The main thing to keep in mind is just breaking the touch barrier, and the easiest way to touch her is just by simply being close to her to begin with, as it is impossible if you are Aren't close to her right now. The next one does really well, and it's actually very subtle as well, but it works wonders. It is intentional silence. Most men, when they're nervous and they have decent talking skills, tend to overcompensate by talking more, but that doesn't always build attraction. What does build attraction is intentionally stopping yourself and having her answer. When done right, this is a good way to build tension between the two of you, so I encourage you to try it sometime. Even if it's not her turn to say something, you could just pause every now and then, even between your sentences. That combined with a flirty smile and locked-on eyes just really sets the mood. And last but definitely not least is just leading her. And what I specifically mean by that is logistically leading her. So basically, if you guys are at a club and you're dancing, then tell her, hey, let's grab some drinks. And then you spend 10 to 15 minutes at the new location that's not even that far away, but just at the bar. But what logistically leading actually does is it refreshes the And it buys you more time, which is very important. And it also conveys to her and gives her the opportunity to trust you. So whenever she does go with you on whatever that thing is and finds out that she had a good experience, it's gonna make her feel good and it's gonna make her want to trust you even more. And then it just builds a nice cycle to where you can even start to suggest going back to your place, and it actually doesn't even sound crazy anymore if done right. So those are the main attraction builders. There are more, but if you want to focus on something, and especially guys that are breaking away from the nice guy habit, That's stopping them and getting them in friend zones, then this is going to be very helpful to focus on. Combining these attraction builders make them even stronger and hit harder, so look for the combinations as well. So as a recap, the attraction builders that we talked about today is eye contact, being close to her, touching her, intentional silence, and logistically leading her. Until next time, see you guys in another video.