John Cordero and Speaker A discuss how small gestures like holding doors and sitting beside someone signal consideration in dating. These micro-behaviors, often instinctive rather than taught, create intimacy and comfort that influence attraction.
You don't know how many times I've walked through a door and like you went ahead of me, so it wouldn't have been an issue to hold it, but you went ahead and pushed it enough so that I could still get through. That's a big deal to someone like me. I'm like, like the thoughtfulness. I didn't think about it.
Yeah, but I do think leading always, like always think in leading. So if I always try to make you feel comfortable or just in general, like I try to and I do it, I just do it naturally because that's—
You do it naturally, but that's probably part of why you don't think to teach it.
Yeah.
And, but I mean, I went— I've only ever been on one date where the gentleman went behind my chair and then pulled it out and he just waited for a second. And then I kind of didn't know if he was pulling it out for himself. And then he's like, would you like to have a seat?
Yeah.
And little things like that.
And I forgot too to say during the seating part was like, if I'm— if we're sitting at a restaurant and you're sitting down, I'm never sitting across from you. I'm always going to sit beside you for the same reasons of being close, being animated. Oh, I love that so much. But also you have better eye contact. I can be up close like now and like just like kind of go just a little more. And it's just a bit more intense and it builds up attraction.
I do like when a guy sits closer to me because from the beginning it communicates this was too far away. I'd like a chance to be a little more intimate.
Yeah. Remember what we were kept— because I was just going off of my natural— It's the little things that girls really notice. Yeah. So, yeah. So I guess, I mean, I really wasn't aware of it, but like really just kind of just lead and just make sure that you just do the little things that women notice to really make a difference. And just kind of just be in your own shell and make sure that she feels comfortable every part of the way as you're leading her. And it just goes huge and it becomes such a habit. I even become oblivious. Like, she brought up so many good points.
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