Breaking the touch barrier

Hey, welcome back to another video, and today I'm going to be talking about breaking the touch barrier. Uh, some, some of you guys overthink it, and so I just want to show you safe places to do it. The number one thing to keep in mind is a simple, simple rule, and it's called close and animated. So if I'm talking to a gal and I'm over here and I'm just doing my thing, it's really hard to actually touch her. And I know this is like almost common sense, but it really needs to be apparent that when you're talking to a girl, you're keeping eye contact and you're just close and animated. I'm just like, hey, how are you doing today? You doing all right? Like, not bad. I'm doing good. So it's good. So if you saw there, I touched her shoulder right here. It was very slight, but you'd be surprised how that goes into effect and you just go more and more. And then, so the place— the safe places to touch are her shoulder. You can always touch like her arm right here. Um, you don't want to keep it any longer than 2 seconds because it's Creepy, and then also you don't want to do. I'm sure you've dealt with creepy touches. And also too is like don't pay attention to it. You almost kind of want to be a magician. So I'm not like, "Hey, how are you doing today?" That's awkward.

Okay.

But so it's more like, "Hey," he's like, "Did you see that guy over there? He's like doing something weird. He's dancing weird. Like you know saying. So I touched her upper back, but I pointed over there. So it's kind of. So it's kind of like you, you just kind of go into that. So anyways, but yeah, uh, but I would love your opinion on that. Like, what is, what is one thing that has been like a good touch experience, and what is like the creepy touch experience?

I think anything that flows naturally, like you were saying, I love. So when you were trying to take my eyes and make them go in that direction, you came here and that felt really natural, and it communicated to me that you were interested. Guys that linger a little too long, or Are too far away, and then it feels really awkward. Like I can tell that they want to talk to me, but they're so far away that I don't actually know what I'm supposed to do. That never feels really good. And then when you can tell they're trying to touch you, communicate interest, so they stay there.

Yeah, yeah. And even when I felt that just now, it's like oh yeah, yeah.

And then also the aggressiveness of it. Like yeah, come on, buddy, old pal, right? Like it's just a soft.

It's a soft touch, meaningful touch, and it tells me that.

You kind of made me like me.

Awesome. So that's what I got for you guys in this video. So just a recap, just be close, be animated, touch her lightly. Shoulder, arms, upper back are always safe. And that's all I got for this video. I'll see you guys in the next.