demonstration of value

Hey, what's up everybody? Today I wanna talk about demonstration of value. Why does it matter and everything like that? So from a woman's perspective, they're always evaluating what kind of value do you have? You know what I'm saying? So do you have low value or do you have high value? They're always gonna wanna go after the high value man because it's more attractive. And there's a couple reasons for that. And what makes a high value man? So what makes a high value man is if you have more money, if you're particularly good at something that she is actually interested in, There's a way that you can help her in any way to further her in her life, whether that could be a position of, you know, work or just something to help her along the way, she will view you in a higher value status. And so it's important because as a woman, she's trying to, whether she realizes it or not, or even has a kid or not, she's always evaluating, can you take care of me? And if I have a kid with you, can you take care of that kid? And that is always going to be in their mind. That's just nature of them to think and assess whether that ever happens as a possibility or not is totally different. But that's what they're viewing when they view us. So it's important to get your money right if you can. And I'm not saying that you have to be rich in order to, to be successful, but that's how a lot of guys that do have money, they tend to lean more on that because there's value in that. But that's neither here nor there. The main takeaway, you don't have to be rich. You can just be well taken care of. Just dress right. Uh, dress properly. You don't have to be in a dress shirt like I am or everything all the time and pretend that you have money. I'm not saying that, but you can always demonstrate high value with certain things. Another way to demonstrate high value that has nothing to do with financial is just having something going on in your life, because the most unattractive thing is that you have nothing going on in your life and that she will be the center of your attention 24/7. That's the quickest way to scare away women, by the way, is that you do that. So don't do that, you know what I'm saying? But if you have something going on, you go fishing, you go boating, you go hiking, there's something that you're doing, you're involved in a sport, you're involved in a charity, you play a musical instrument, whatever it is, just go more on your interests, have something going on than just your work and coming home, which most guys do. And I get it, you can get tired at the end of the day, but have some sort of social life going. That's why I encourage you guys, and it will empower you To go to places that you're able to talk to women. And it's good because socially you can go out, and that's why night game is good, because you can go out to certain venues and it's all good. I mean, I wouldn't brag about going to a bar if that's what you're doing, but just nice venues that you can go at night or just things that you have going on in your life will help demonstrate value that, hey, I have something outside of just paying attention to you. And women like a man that has something going on in their lives, and they want to be a part of something. They want to be a part of an adventure with you in those things. And so they can associate— the more things that you're into and you make that known to them, they can associate certain things. Oh yeah, I like that. I like— oh, you're really into AI? Cool. You know, I'm— I, I like— I use ChatGPT all the time. Whatever it is, just associate, you know what I'm saying? Or maybe you hate AI and she can associate with that too. Whatever it is, it doesn't matter. But just have something going on in your life that she can be a part of, or at least demonstrate high value that will help in that way. So examples of low value is demonstrating that you're needy, that you're going to need her, that you want to put her on a pedestal. Those are all low value things. That you're, you know, that you're in financial straits or you're in financial strain. You know, sharing stuff like that is like, oh man, I think I need to file for bankruptcy or things like that. That is a good way to scare away a woman. And that's demonstrating low value. And she won't find that attractive. And that's just more reason to separate herself from you. But if you demonstrate high value, that you're Well put together. Oh, that's another thing— emotional maturity. That one people can sleep on, and you don't need money for that either. Emotional maturity is just being unfazed. That helps demonstrate high value. So something to help get you there, and that just comes from being truthful to yourself and being centered in yourself and being confident in yourself so that you're not fazed when the shit tests happen. And I'll actually have a lesson on shit tests to help you out with that, but that will help you demonstrate high value. So always want to keep in mind what you're saying, because even the little things that you're saying demonstrate high value or low value. So if you're saying I'm sorry a lot, you're inferring that you're doing something wrong. It's like, I'm sorry, but I just wanted to say hi, and you know, I just thought you were cute. You're already starting off with low value comment, okay? So even the little things that you say can put you in a low value or high value state, and there's always going to be either or. It's not really in the middle. There are some neutral spots, but usually if you're saying something or a statement of an action or something that you're doing, it's always going to reflect low value or high value. And nobody's going to get it perfect, all right? But at the same time, when you demonstrate high value, there are certain things that you can do to help, and it's not just bragging, okay? Don't ever brag. Just bring it up nonchalant. If you have something that's impressive, it is good to showcase it, but showcase it in a way that's not bragging. It's not going to be this, oh man, I have this big boat, like, you got to check it out. I'm just like, hey, yeah, because I actually go boating and You know, it's really nice and it's just something that I do with my friends. And then if she asks more about it, then it's cool. Then you could say how big the boat is, whatever. That's okay. But again, not try to do it in such a brag way, but bring it up. If you have an impressive career, you know, if you're an engineer or something like that or a doctor, then yeah, absolutely bring that up. But bring it in a way that is helping people, you know, or bring it in a way that's like not, I make this paycheck and this is how much I make in my bank account. That's gonna be unattractive because you're just bragging and women do not like conceited men. They like confident but not conceited. So just something to keep in mind to really display high value and just try to do it throughout the conversation and just sprinkle it in. And it helps build attraction because it's like, oh wow, this guy's got something going on. And that attraction will go up the more that you display high value. So hope you guys found this interesting. I'll see you guys in the next video.