Why eye contact matters when talking to women. Avoiding it makes you seem disinterested and lets conversations stay shallow. Holding a steady gaze builds connection and attraction, and you can maintain it longer than you think without being creepy.
Hey, welcome back, and today we're going to be talking about eye contact. And before we get into it, I want to share the dangers of the lack of eye contact. Having no eye contact can hurt you because as guys, if we are talking to a hot female, our eyes might drift towards their boobs or their ass, but that is going to kill the whole interaction for you, which is what we don't want. Let's say you don't look at their lady lumps, but you're just not having good eye contact. There will just be a lack of connection between the two of you, which will also hurt you. So a good way to think about eye contact is that the more eye contact that you have with the woman that you're talking to, the more connection that you guys can build naturally between the two of you. It is very normal for the everyday guy to have a decent amount of eye contact, but what I'm asking for you is to have great eye contact with every woman that you talk to, and really everybody that you talk to, because it all bleeds over. Meaning that you are locked into their eyes in every conversation. This habit will start to build, but you will have to practice this, and it is intense because women are very good at eye contact naturally. If they say something to test you, or they might say something flirty themselves, if you look away in those moments, it's almost like you failed a mini test in a way. You don't want to do that. It can actually build attraction the longer you stare into their eyes. You don't have to get super crazy with it, but you'll be surprised how long you can actually look into their eyes. It's good a way to break away every now and then. But I've never gotten in trouble for staring at their eyes too long. That's just me personally. So to recap this lesson, we talked about how much it will hurt you if you have a lack of eye contact. We talked about how connection and attraction is built when you do have good eye contact, and we also talked about how long to hold eye contact for as well. Hope you guys enjoyed this lesson. See you guys in the next video.
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