John Cordero argues that holding eye contact longer than the other person signals confidence and interest, while looking away reads as insecurity. He recommends practicing the staring game and pairing eye contact with a genuine smile. Women have complimented his eyes when he maintains steady contact.
What's up guys, I just want to let you guys know how important eye contact is. It is so crucial because you cannot build attraction if you're not looking at her eyes. If you look away, especially if she's looking at you intently, then you're telling her without saying it out loud that you're either not interested or that you're not confident enough to keep eye contact. And so it's So important to do that for so many reasons, especially if you do find her attractive. You don't want your eyes looking anywhere else but her eyes because it can get you in trouble, right? So there's so many other reasons too, but it's just really important as you're having conversations. I don't care if it's with a guy or a female, get good at making good eye contact because a lot of people that struggle with confidence and security, they tend to look down or look away, and it becomes a habit for some of you guys. And if that's the case, then you really need to take heart of what I'm saying here because it is hard to progress if you're not making that eye contact good. And I would just keep it just a little bit longer than she does for the most part. And it's— it could be quite a bit, you know what I'm saying? And if you do it right, I've had people compliment— I've had women compliment me on like, oh, I really like your eyes. And it's basically— they're basically saying in a way that like, I like how you're keeping eye contact with me. Because me, I just have like really dark brown eyes. There's nothing special about my eyes at all. But they just noticed that I'm able to just keep good eye contact in general. So that's really the basics of it. And when you're like sitting close to her, or you're standing close to her, and you keep good eye contact, and you're smiling, it's like, hey, you know, I just, I really like your vibe, you know what I'm saying? And you do that, and you're up in her face, and like, you're like having that eye contact. Nothing beats it, bro. Nothing beats it. Like, like you're in there. If you can do that with a smile on your face, you'll be ahead of the vast majority of guys that don't know how to do eye contact well and struggle with it. So it's not hard, but it's something that you have to be mindful of. And then when you do that consistently, you'll win. So next time you go in an interaction, talk to a female, talking to a friend, just be cautious of how good you are at your eye contact. You know, you could do the staring game without even letting the other person know and make sure that it's just consistent. That's basically it. You do that, you win. All right, that's all I got for this video. I'll see you guys in the next.
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