Goals

Welcome back to another video, and today I want to talk about goals. Reason why I want to talk about goals is because in this program it's going to define exactly what you want in the situation. So for instance, there's 2 types of guys usually coming through my program. There's the type of guy that has a general goal of wanting to get in a relationship and have a girlfriend that will eventually be a wife, and that's great. And so that's his goal. And so there are certain things to go about it because that's his goal. He's going to do certain action steps to get to that goal. Now, on the other side of it, there's some guys that come into this program and they just want casual relationships, you know, and I'm all right with that too, as long as it's done respectfully and there's consent involved. I'm all for it. And I will teach you how to seduce women. I'm not opposed to it. But that goal is very different than the guy that's wanting a girlfriend and wife. And so they go about it in different ways. And I can show you. So So hopefully you see that whenever you set a goal, it's going to define the action steps. Now, when I talk about goals, I want you to realize I do not want to focus so much on outcome goals, okay? So it's not that we want to focus on, well, I want to be rich someday. Like, yeah, that's great, and that is a goal to some degree, but it's just an outcome. What are you doing to get rich? You know, same thing with women. I want to specifically is I want to get better at dating women. Okay, so we need to set action steps and make those action step goals our priority. That way we can get to dating women and getting numbers and all that other stuff. When I talk about goals in this program, I'm talking about setting actionable goals that we can actually accomplish to make a good result. So that is what we want, because if we're going to go from A To be, we need steps in between to get there. And those— my handwriting's horrible— are gonna be the actions. Beautiful. So actions is what's gonna help us get to our outcome. Okay, there's nothing wrong with having the outcome. There's nothing wrong with dreaming of an outcome. But at the same time, it's these steps that help, and that's what I have. So like, in essence, the first step that we'll have is the Confidence Challenge. So if you do that, that is going to get you closer to getting confident with asking women for phone numbers and talking to women, and then eventually going on dates and anything else that you have in mind. So that's one of the first action steps that you can do. That is a goal that you can get there. So hope you see that that's what's going to be positive about this, is that's what we want. And when we do one of these mini actions— so I have here, like, uh, like in phase 1, I have you talking to 5 to 10 women, um, on a given day. So when you do that, and after you've done that, after you completed that in that day, then you're like, fuck yeah, I just talked to 10 women. You might have gotten rejected. You know what I'm saying, by all 10 women. But you're like so psyched up because I did the action. That's what I do. I psych myself up whenever I do the action. That's what I care about, because I know if I do these steps, there's going to be a woman that's going to say yes to me eventually. And this is true for anybody, even if they're bad at talking to women. The chances will go lower for someone like that, but still, you will get a yes if you keep trying and keep Putting in the effort, and in this program I'm going to show you how to get yeses faster by these action steps. So it's not going to be this big drawn out process in between time, which is not the fun part, right? But you have to take the action in order to get the outcome, and there's no way around it. And so the half is having a good mindset around this, and then the beginning half of what that goes with that. Is getting the knowledge, which is in this program. I don't gatekeep anything, you know, everything is available to you to learn so that you can get to that next step. So that's the beginning part, the mindset and the knowledge. And then these actions, these goals that you do, these steps that you take is that second half. And that's what takes you all the way to the outcome. And that's what I want for you, and I hope that you want that for you. And when we do that We celebrate each action. Every time you talk to a woman, that should be celebrated by you. And you can give yourself a positive self-talk and be like, man, I did that. You might have gotten rejected, okay? She might have told you to fuck off, which rarely happens, but she might have, all right? But that doesn't matter. The part that matters is that you took the action and you did the part, and then you, you move on to the next. It's going to normalize your routine that you're talking to women every day, maybe every other day, and you do that consistently over and over again. And guess what? You're gonna get better. And guess what? You're gonna inch your way further and eventually get to where you're gonna get a phone number and you're gonna go on dates, and then you're gonna get more phone numbers, and then you're gonna go on more dates. And then all of a sudden, whatever your goal is, if it's casual or relational-wise, you'll get a girlfriend. And eventually enough girlfriends, you know, it can get more serious from there, and it just keeps going and going. If it's casual, you know, you get laid and, you know, whatever you want to do. If you want to keep her around and, uh, you know, go to a new one, then that's on you. But that's pretty much The thing that is set out, and that's why I'm big. If I ever talk to you guys on your onboarding call, uh, and if you haven't taken the onboarding call, please do. But that's the one thing that I ask you guys is, okay, what's your goal? What do you want out of this? You know what I'm saying? Because it can go in different places. But as soon as I find out where you're trying to go, then I can guide you into that step. But then I'm going to give you action steps for you to complete that. So you got to be a man that's willing to take these actions. Okay? It's not enough to just know this information. And it's not enough to have a good mindset. That's a start, but to really get the ball rolling, you got to take the actions. And I'm telling you, that's where the transformation happens. And that's something that I want you to realize. And as soon as you do this, you'll be in a lot better place and you're going to get a lot further out of this program. So this is a very crucial step. So if you have any questions about this, please comment in the community or message me personally, because this is a huge part. You get this down and you go through the rest of the material and it's great. All right. That's all I got for you guys. And I'll see you guys in the next video. Keep learning, keep growing, and keep taking action steps. All right.