JCJohn CorderoI am a dating coach that teach single men to date better

How to advance your touches preview

5 Jul 2026 · 1 min

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In this short conversational video, host John Cordero introduces the concept of "breaking the touch barrier," focusing on how to initiate physical contact in social and dating contexts without coming across as creepy. He outlines common pitfalls—overthinking, awkward greetings, and misreading distance—and demonstrates a safer approach by using a brief, purposeful touch to an upper back while redirecting attention. A dialogue with a second speaker reinforces the key ideas, emphasizing that natural, flowing touches that align with eye direction and maintain appropriate proximity feel comfortable and signal interest, whereas lingering, overly aggressive, or poorly timed touches create discomfort. The exchange highlights the importance of subtlety, spatial awareness, and the emotional tone conveyed by a soft, simple touch, inviting viewers to share their own positive and negative touch experiences.

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Hey, welcome back to another video, and today I'm going to be talking about breaking the touch barrier. Uh, some, some of you guys overthink it, and so I just want to show you safe places to do it. I'm sure you've dealt with creepy touches. And also too is like, don't, uh, pay attention to it. You almost kind of want to be a magician. So I'm not like, hey, how are you doing today? That's awkward, okay? But so it's more like, hey, he's like, did you see that guy over there? He's like, dude, You're doing something weird. It's dancing weird, like, you know what I'm saying? So I touched her upper back, but I pointed over there, so it's kind of— so it's kind of like you, you just kind of go into that. So anyways, but yeah, uh, but I would love your opinion on that. Like, what is, what is one thing that has been like a good touch experience, and what is like the creepy touch experience?
I think anything that flows naturally, like you were saying, I love. So when you were trying to take my eyes and make them go in that direction, You came here and that felt really natural and it communicated to me that you were interested. Guys that linger a little too long or are too far away and then it feels really awkward. Like I can tell that they want to talk to me, but they're so far away that I don't actually know what I'm supposed to do. That never feels really good. And then you can tell they're trying to touch you to communicate interest, so they stay there.
Yeah. Yeah. And even when I felt that just now, it's like, oh yeah.
And then also the aggressiveness of it. Like, yeah, buddy, old pal, right? Like it's just a soft, it's a soft touch. It's a very simple touch, and it tells me that you kind of maybe like me.
Awesome.