how to flirt like a boss

Hey, welcome back to another video, and today I'm going to talk about how to flirt like a boss. So this is really, really helpful and really gets in on a lot of things. Uh, what I love about being flirty is that it's not tied to one thing. One component can make something flirty, so I'm going to go over them starting with the tone because that is so overlooked. So when you're talking to a woman, you'll be like, hey, You know, you look kind of pretty today. You know what I'm saying? You could say something like that, or you'd be like, hey, you look really pretty today, or you look kind of pretty today. You know what I'm saying? Or you can be like, I really like the way you walk. You know, you could say something like that, or you could say in a tone that's flirty, hey, I really like the way you walk. You know what I'm saying? And it's like it hits differently. And why does that work? Well, it works because there's two ways to talk to a woman. Okay, there's a friendly way, and then there's a way of talking to her with sexual. Sexual intent or saying or doing something with sexual intent. And I, I don't always mean that you're saying something sexual or you're thinking something sexual, but what I'm trying to get at is that whatever is not friendly and platonic will relate to sexual interest. Okay, so if my tone is friendly, it's going to be like this because I'm lecturing right now, right? But if my tone is more like this and I slow down how I say, my voice gets a little deeper, and I look at you more intently, Then you see how that can go more flirty, you know what I'm saying? So little things like that can really go a long way. So when tone, you want to slow down, you want to lower your voice, you want to say things more emphasis on certain parts to make it more intentional that you're having interest in the woman in a sexual way. Again, it doesn't always have to say something sexual. It doesn't have to be— the intent behind it is there, right? And that's what sets it Differently. That's one way. Uh, the way that you look at her can be totally that way too, you know what I'm saying? Like, if you stand close to her and you really look in her eyes and be like, hey, you know what I'm saying? You like tilt your head a little bit, whatever. That little stuff goes a long way, and trust me, women pick up on it, all right? And that's why eye contact is so big, and I talk about it because there's a way to look at her in a friendly way that's neutral, and there are certain preferences, certain things that you can do in that moment. You have to find your own way of looking at a woman with intent, but it is so possible. There have been times where my tone didn't change, my— what I said didn't change at all. But when I looked at her a certain way, having a regular conversation, she already knew that I was interested in her. I didn't have to say any intent line. And that's the crazy thing. And that's why I have this lesson for you guys, because when you add in one of these elements, it can make it intent, it can make it flirty just off rip. And you can also combine it. You can do the eye contact with the tone, with the physicality, and they all can go together too. So it just depends on the situation. But anything that's like that, especially with the touching, you know what I'm saying? Like, you can touch a girl on her shoulder and it could be totally friendly, you know, a little pat on the shoulder, hey, good job. Or you can touch her on the shoulder and kind of squeeze a little bit and kind of like your hand just falls down a little bit on her shoulder, you know what I'm saying? And it's like, it's a different feel. Why is it different? Because one was a friendly intent and the other was more of a sexual intent. In nature intent, and I just mean sexual interest. Okay, so again, it's not saying something sexual, and it's not always thinking something sexual, but it helps you display that intent to make it just clear that, hey, I'm into you as a potential mate. It's the best way that I can say it. And so anything can be turned flirty because of that. And some of the times that it is hard for some guys to understand that the word flirt or flirty is abstract to some degree because There are so many different things to make something flirty. The main components is your tone, how you touch her, what you're saying. Hopefully this helps you be just more mindful of how you can do this and practice. Pick one thing, pick your tone and see how you can make that more flirty. Pick your eye contact, how can you make that more flirty? Pick your physicality, how can you make that more flirty? There's so many different things. Focus on one thing. Work on that, and it really helps a lot. And night game is going to be better for this because you'll spend more time. But that's pretty much what I have for this video of making things flirty. Hope you guys enjoy it, and I'll see you guys in the next.