A dating coach explains the "Frequency of Attraction" method: project confidence and playfulness through body language so she senses your interest, then back it up with words. Most men fail by never actually saying she's attractive, leaving her confused about whether you like her.
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If you want a girl that looks like this but you look like that, then you're going to need to know the Frequency of Attraction method. This method is going to help especially if you don't know what to say or it's been a while since you've talked to a woman. So let's jump into it. The Frequency of Attraction method is when you're showing confidence, emotional stability, and playfulness that you can display without using words. Basically, it's a way that you are presenting yourself in the moment that the girl can pick up on. Women can feel certain energies. So if you can talk to her with an energy that's light, fun, confident, then her chances of accepting you goes up dramatically, and she will be more likely to give out her number as well. Having a good frequency of attraction is great, but if your words don't match your energy, she can get confused. The most common mistake men make is once they get in the conversation, they never show that they're into the girl they're talking to. The most easy way to do this is to call her cute or say that she has an interesting look. So if you have a good frequency of attraction and you signal to her that you like her, then you finally give her a chance to actually be into you. And that's the spark that you need to get the hot woman you've been eyeing.