John Cordero explains how to initiate a kiss on a date by reading her signals and using a subtle verbal cue like complimenting her lips. A woman notes that no kiss on a first date can signal disinterest, but she also fears unwanted advances.
Welcome back to another video, and today I'm going to be talking about kiss close. And it's something to not overthink. Just remember that when you get up to this point, a lot of the times— there's been times where even I've met a gal at, you know, at like a bar and like kissed her that night, but that's really, really rare. And I don't suggest that unless you've really just built up the physical escalation, but it can go that quickly, just letting you know. Um, but anyways, but when you're kissing, when you're about to kiss a gal, it's very important to like She's already comfortable with your touch. You guys have already had a good conversation. You've already built up comfort. And so one of the main things that I like to do is just read how she feels. If I feel like she's really feeling me, I might just just go in for it. And there's a certain way to do that that I'm about to explain. But if I feel like she needs a little bit of heads up on it, so like basically what I'll do is like I'll say something like as like I just I just want to say like. Your lips look really nice right now. Like, and I'll do that and I'll whisper something in her ear. It doesn't matter what the line is, but I'll whisper something in her ear. I'll pull back like this. I'm not that far off. And then what I'll do is I'll do— we're more hugging each other and stuff like that. And so just so you guys know, if you guys get rejected by the kiss, as a man, you still have to lead and be unfazed because she feels what you're feeling. And if you're feeling frustration or you feel like you're a loser or whatever, Then it's gonna feel like kissing you would be a bad thing, okay? You don't want to do that. So just be unfazed and be like, all right, well, you know, whatever, and just move it along. Either, you know, she'll either say something about it, or you just kind of just move along the conversation. It's like, all right, well, I guess you're just not ready just yet. It's all right, we'll get there, you know, whatever. Say something like that, acknowledge it, and then just move on. It's not a big deal. From a woman's perspective, like, as far as like Guys going for a kiss, like, what did you think about that?
A lot of things happen for me. So especially on a first date, when a guy doesn't go in for the kiss, especially if I was interested, it communicates to me like not weakness but disinterest. And I always wonder why. So I love that you suggested oftentimes they take the lead at the end of the first date. There are times I'm worried that they are going to go in for the kiss because I wasn't interested, in which case
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