Dating coach John Cordero explains the man-to-woman vibe: openly showing sexual interest and confidence so women know you're a potential partner, not a friend. He breaks down specific moves like teasing, light touch, and direct verbal cues, and how to adjust them for quick daytime interactions versus longer nighttime ones.
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Hey, what's up guys? Coach John here, and today I want to talk about bringing in and introducing the man-to-woman vibe. This is super helpful, and this is gonna help you totally eliminate the nice guy effect altogether. You will never get friend-zoned if you do this right. Never. So this is very helpful, and so I just want to say what it is, and that way you know what it isn't. So what What it is, is man-to-woman vibe is— or just making it man-to-woman. If I say any of those terms, what that means is that you are displaying to the woman that you are a man and you are not afraid to fuck her. You're not afraid to have a sexual experience with her. You're not afraid to talk to her in a sexual way and take her out on a date. Anything that is showing sexual interest. Is a man-to-woman vibe or just keeping it man-to-woman. So I gotta get that out the way. Some of you guys are scared of getting it to this level, but I'm telling you, most women, whenever they're looking at you and they're actually trying to assess you, they're trying to see very quickly if you are someone that they will sleep with or not. And they might not want to sleep with you right then and there. More times than not, they won't. There's got to be comfort built. But I will say that they're at least thinking about it and they're at least assessing you, because if they don't see you as a potential mate, then they're going to put you in the friend zone, my guy, and that's something that you don't want. So it's very important to keep it man and woman and, and just sprinkle it throughout. Uh, if it's day game, I tend to do that, um, a little bit, uh, sparingly because you don't have much time with that girl, man. Maybe you got 10 minutes, 15 minutes tops. Night game, you know, I got more like 2 hours, 3 hours, and I'm definitely putting it on a little bit more there because I just have more time to spend with her there. So something to keep in mind. And so, but what man a woman isn't is friendly, beating around the bush, this haha jokester type of a guy. I mean, it's okay to make a woman laugh, but if that's like your crutch and like you just Want to just keep it light all the time and joke around. I'd rather, you know, that's just me personally. I'd rather be more, a bit more serious and a bit more about business and have some humor, you know, tease her, have fun. Like, I like to keep things light still, but there are moments where I will actually go and be more of like, hey, what's up? Like, I'll whisper in her ear, I will touch her on her back, you know, saying I'll push her away. You know what I'm saying? And I'm gonna do shit like that because I'm gonna tell her I don't give a fuck. Like, I'm here to have a good time. I'm into you. Yeah, I think you're attractive, but you're not that attractive. All right, like, don't get ahead of yourself, you know? Shit like that. See, push-pull. So it's one of those things that you just have to own it. Own it. Uh, everyone has their own way to do it, man or woman. Uh, so make it your own. But that's pretty much the gist of it. Um, if you can do that, that is going to get you away from friend zone. Big time. And either she is going to be into it or she's not, but it's going to make that more apparent to her that you are interested, and that's going to make it better for you in the long run. So definitely, definitely, definitely keep things man to woman, especially if you're out in night game, guys. That way she knows what's up, and that way she can reciprocate. Because if you do that, she'll fall into that woman frame and she'll start flirting with you back. She'll start You know, being okay with your touches and your comments and different things like that. So it's it's a beautiful thing when when you actually own it and you're comfortable with it, and it just gets you away from that friend friendly you know type of guy. So we don't want that for you. So that's all I got for this video. See you guys in the next.
