Making observations about someone's clothing, style, or mannerisms generates better responses than asking questions. The speaker argues observations are easy to practice, hard to overdo, and work best when you add humor or playful assumptions early in a conversation.
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Hey guys, today we're going to be talking about making observations and why they are very useful for you when you're talking to people. Making observations in real time make the conversation a lot more fun and relevant, and it is also a great way to make it about the girl, which is what you want to do. If you're ever at a loss for words, make an observation. It helps me and tends to work out really well if you make an observation early on, Some of the best responses and answers that I get early on in the conversation usually comes from observations even more so than questions. The things that you can make an observation about is her clothes, her style, the way she talks, and the way she carries herself. You can even take a specific thing that she said and highlight that and make an observation with either a personal input or a joke of some kind. You can make it really fun and colorful when you combine other lessons with observations. You can even make playful assumptions as well. Just don't forget to make observations to begin with. So be sure to add them as much as you can. Making observations is hard to overdo, unlike asking questions and making personal input. So I encourage you to go for it. Making observations in real time takes some wit, but you don't have to be a genius. You just need to flex that muscle over and over again when you're in the fire. The more that you do that, the better you're going to get at making observations. That's all I have for you guys in this lesson. See you guys in the next video.