night game final

Hey, what's up guys? Welcome back to another video. This is gonna be fire. This is gonna be amazing. It's one of my favorite things to talk about because it has so many moving elements and I just nerd out with it. So with night game, this is something that is really, really good. It's very different than day game. Just to give you a contrast, day game, you wanna show intent early. It's really clear and cut. You know, you want to like inject all the stuff that we talked about in the attraction method. And also just kind of work on it. With night game, you don't have to reveal your hand, so to speak. You could just talk to people, and that's the biggest thing. When you go to a venue, it's going to be intimidating, okay? It's going to be loud music. It's gonna be lively in some way, some form. There's gonna be people around. It's a different environment. Day game, the women there tend to be more by themselves, or they might have one friend. Night game, they'll at least have one friend, most likely probably be within a group. So it's a little bit different. Yeah. I'm saying? So things to get adjusted to is the loud music, talking to a group or groups, and just kind of just getting out there. And it's all not terrible. It's all ways to just get better. Now, the best thing about night game is that you have a lot more time with the woman because there's a great chance that you get there at a decent time, like at 10, 11 or so, that she's going to be there for a couple hours. You know what I'm saying? Depending on the venue, it might even be sooner than that. Just depends on the venue. But she'll be there for a couple hours with her friends and they're just gonna be there for socializing. And depending on the venue, if it's like a rooftop lounge that's really nice and different things like that, she's probably going to expect somebody to come up to her. You know what I'm saying? It's not too out of the ordinary. And women know what they're doing when they dress up and go with their friends. They're almost looking to be talked to in a social way. You know what I'm saying? So it's just a little bit more natural to just go up because there's a little bit more expectation. than just at a grocery store. So that's a good benefit. Now, the thing about night game is that you just have to be able to work the venue. And what I mean by that is that you're getting comfortable, you're talking, you're having interactions with everybody, okay? And you just appear social. So you're going from one group to another, and sometimes there's guys that are just by themselves. Talk to them, talk to the bartender, talk to the person that takes the ticket in the beginning. Like, all those people should be talked to, socialized, and it's just really good to get in the habit there. One tip I will say for anybody that's new to this, go to the same spot over and over again because it's going to get you more comfortable. You'll start seeing the same people, and then what that will do is that it will give you someone to talk to in reference because you'll start to see the regulars as you become a regular, which is okay. You know what I'm saying? As long as it's a spot that has a good amount of women coming to it, On a giving night, then that's what you want. All right, so as you do that, you're talking to different people. You're just keeping it light. You're keeping it fun. There's nothing really profound. You know I'm saying? So when I go to groups, like hey, what's up? What are you guys doing? What are you drinking there? It's like, oh, you're drinking that? That's crazy. You say I like I just like rum and coke. I keep it simple. You guys are on some like fancy stuff. You know I'm saying? Whatever it is, it doesn't matter. I just I'm just loud. You match the energy of the environment. I talk a lot louder, more confident. I smile. I just kind of just. Give a— don't give a fuck attitude. I tend to cuss a little bit more, but that's just my personality. Um, if you're all right with that, feel free, you know, just go through with that. And that really just sets the tone for the night, you know what I'm saying? You're just giving off non-judgmental vibes, good vibes, to where people will be more inclined to just accept you even though you're not in the friend group. You just ask the round and you just kind of talk to everybody in the group and just get to know each other. If there's a group that has men and women in it, then a good way to see if anybody's taken or not is like, hey, how do you guys know each other? And it's like, oh well, that's my boyfriend, or oh, we're just friends, we're actually— or well, we're just coworkers and we're just getting together to celebrate a birthday party. And it'll let you know the information that you need to really understand, okay, who do I talk to, and different things like that. So that's, that's really neat. So as you do that, you'll notice that there's women that are just looking at you and different things like that, and they're going to give you indicators of interest, which I'm going over in another video. And the thing is, is that you look for those, and that also helps you guide you to see who you want to talk to. But I often tend to go to a group of people, and I tend to tease the one that I'm interested in and see how she takes it, and then kind of go from there. And I don't display intent right away. I just try to get in with the friend group. I talk to everybody, and then I'll talk for about 10 minutes, and then I'll leave. You know what I'm saying? It's like, hey, I'll see you guys around. I'm just gonna catch up with some other people, but I'll see you guys around. And then I go. If I'm at a place and I'm dancing, I can dance, or I can go to the bar, or I can go to another section of the venue. It just depends on what the venue is. It doesn't have to be a bar, but it just— anything like that. And basically you just move around and you talk. And if you don't know anybody, it still looks like you're social. That's the crazy part, because when they see you, they don't know that you don't know this person that you're talking to, and they don't know that you're going from another person to another person and talking to them for 30 seconds to a minute and then moving on. Like, they just see you being social. It's like, I get that a lot. It's like, dang, you know everybody. It's like, yeah, well, I actually just met, you know, so-and-so not that long ago, and I'm just, I'm just a social guy, you know. And it just keeps going from there. So that's really the big thing, is that it really flexes your social muscle to really talk to everybody and see where certain women are, you know what I'm saying. And you tease them, and then the second time that I come back I tend to zero a little bit more in on the target, um, and that really helps a lot because then I'll be like, oh, it's like, don't— I could tell, like, out of everybody here, you're, you're definitely in trouble, aren't you? You know what I'm saying? So that's like a bread and butter, uh, saying that, you know, I use, and it works. And it's like, oh no, I'm not trouble, blah blah blah. And I'll just kind of go from there, and I'll lead her logistically, um, depending on the situation, you know. I'll kind of take a read, like, if she feels Like she's feeling me, if I feel like she's feeling me and she's a little bit embarrassed or she's a little bit scared about being judged from the friends, sometimes I'll be like, hey, it's like, let's go over here. You know, it's like, I know the spot is over here or whatever, and just lead her to somewhere else, you know what I'm saying? Different part of the venue. And that's leading logistically, which I'll go over in another video. But all this stuff helps you get to know the girl a little bit better, get comfort. All those different elements still come into play. Okay. But what's cool is that you can inject intent the second time or the third time that you have a touchpoint when you return to the same friend group again. All you have to do at that point is just get comfortable talking to people, talking louder than the music. It is intimidating at first. I'm not even gonna bullshit you. There's a lot to keep in mind, but that's what the Q&A is for. That's what coaching is for, to help you get to this. So feels high risk, and so I'll say high risk because I like to say the other part, which is High reward. So when you do this right, and when I say working the venue, when you work the venue correctly, there's no reason why you can't have 2 or 3 different women that potentially you can get numbers from. And I tend to at least walk away with a number at the end of the night, and that is not that far-fetched. And what's cool is like you're going from group to group to group, so even if somebody rejects you, you go on to the next gal in the group. Or, you know, if it's a 2-set, if it's like just 2 women or Whatever, you talk to them. Or if it's just a woman singled out, which is not common, but it happens, you can talk to her, whatever. And you just kind of pay attention and look for IOIs. And it kind of helps you kind of reenter back in. Because if you see IOIs, you see her flick her hair or smiling at you or touch your shoulder or just different little things like that, or ask more about you, pay attention to that. And then what you can do later is you can just reenter, talk to her, and then get her number from there. And I sometimes I lead her around logistically. I'll touch her on her shoulder, her back. I'll physically escalate. There's a lot of components that come into play and everything comes together. But that's super, super helpful because at the end of the day, if I'm spending 3 hours with this girl and we're going from place to place, sometimes I'll start at that venue and it was like, hey, we're going to go to the salsa club after this. And I go to the salsa club with the friends. I'm in with the friend group and I'm talking to her and I'm flirting with her and I'm touching her and I'm— Like, we're having a good time. I'm building comfort with her. All these different things feel— all these different experiences come together, and it almost feels like we've known each other for a little bit of time if you do it right, because you're going from one spot to another, and it's so powerful. And then when I finally ask for the number, it's nice because there's so— there's just less risk of flake if you do it right. You know what I'm saying? But if you do this right and you spend time with her and you have time at night to do this, This can be amazing, and this can really set it off to get that number. And there's sometimes, for the casual guys out there, there's times where you can even take her back to your place, man. If that's your goal, you can absolutely do that, and there's nothing wrong with that as long as it's done, you know, in a way that is respectful and she's not drunk and there's consent involved. By all means, that's cool. But it's just one of those things that, like, it's not hard once you finally understand it and you get it. And it's so rewarding because of the time that you can spend with that woman that you're building attraction. And it's just something building over and over and over again, and it can really snowball into something awesome, into a relationship, into all types of things. So it's really, really neat to really pay attention to the lessons, guys. I have these lessons for a reason. I don't go super long because I'm not trying to bore you or have you feel like you need to skip or not watch them at all. So with night game, you got to apply everything I put in. I'm not even playing. This makes it a little bit more complex because you're putting all this stuff together. But again, this is practice and this is going to get you in a good spot. Do not miss the opportunity of night game because it is so rewarding because it's high risk. I don't think it's that high risk once you get comfortable, but it's risky feeling because if you're not used to it, the loud music, talking to groups, all that stuff can be intimidating if you're worried about being judged. If you're Take one-on-one coaching with me, you won't get that anymore, right? So just work on that. If this is something that struggles with you, we'll work one-on-one, no big deal. But at the end of the day, this will help you be complete. So you can use day game during the day and then night game at night. The only thing about night game is that you have Friday, Saturday. Uh, if you have— if you're in a big city or if you have a venue that has like a ladies night on a Thursday or Tuesday or whatever, Then you have different spots. I know a guy that's in Houston, Texas, and there's like this club that just pops on Tuesday for whatever reason. So you have little things like that and just take advantage of them, you know what I'm saying? Whatever that is, just key in on those spots and try different areas, you know, to see what works for you. One of the most common misconceptions that I get from our more professional setting is that you can't meet quality women. I would highly disagree. And if you want quality women, go to quality places. Go to a really nice rooftop lounge, you know what I'm saying? Go to an upscale bar where it costs more to get a drink. Those types of places, you're going to meet professionals and people, and there are a smaller amount of people that go to those places that don't even drink. You know what I'm saying? There's like nighttime events that you can visit, and there's all different types of stuff. Sometimes there's car shows that do all right. I wouldn't say car shows is the best, but there's little things like that. There's all types of nighttime activities that don't always involve alcohol and don't always involve low-quality women. Uh, but I mean, obviously if you go to a hole-in-the-wall, yeah, you're gonna find low-quality women. And if you look for low-quality women anywhere, then yeah, sure, they're there. But also there's high-quality women that have a good job, that have good professions. So don't knock it, you know what I'm saying? I really would highly suggest you try it and get out there because it's going to give you the best bang for your buck if you do it right. So that's all I got for night game. Again, if you guys need guidance, Q&A, or one-on-one, I got you. So that's all I got. See you guys in the next video.