number close

All right, welcome back to another video, and today I want to talk about how to number close. This is very, very good to get this because when you put the interactions together, you have a certain amount of time. The longer that you're spending time with the woman, the better the number is going to be, the less flaky she will be, and she will actually respond to you way better. So try to make that connection, build that attraction, sprinkle in the intent so that when it comes time for the number close, it's way more solid. All right, and again, I talked about seeding the date, the That is going to be your best friend because it gives you a reason to ask for her number. Not that you need a reason. I sometimes I don't. Sometimes I forget to see the date even today. I'm going to be honest with you, but it helps. Okay, it always helps me, and I always kick myself every time I forget to see the date. So anyways, so getting into it, when you're asking for a number, just assume that she's going to give it to you because why is that? Is because it's more confident. It comes across way more confident. Like I talked about. Going bowling. It's like, I know this bowling alley has like awesome place, it has actually really good food, and yeah, I definitely like to take you sometime. It's like, uh, we should do that. It's like, oh yeah, sure, whatever. Or like, or like, maybe. It's like, whatever. It's like, all right. And so I take my phone out, I'm like, all right, put your number in and we'll just go from there. All right. And that's it. Like, I just make it that much better. I try not to have this set line. I really don't. I just use whatever's on the top of my head. But just getting comfortable and knowing the time to ask for the number, and you want that at least after a 5-minute conversation is better, you know what I'm saying? In day game. In night game, you want to run an interaction, get to know her better, you know, tease, sprinkle intent. And when you feel like it's getting towards the twilight of her time leaving, or maybe you get like— you overhear a friend saying, yeah, we're about to go, whatever— I would try not to save it for the end of the night. All right, try to do it towards the middle or the middle of the end of the night because you don't know what her plans are. You can always ask her logistically if you get a chance to, and you might know, which is cool, and then you know how much time you have from there. But it's always better to be safe than sorry because you don't want her to disappear. You don't want her to bring her friend, just yanks you, is like, hey, we got this thing, we got to wake up early tomorrow, and then she yanks you and it's like, wait, no, you know what I'm saying? At that point, it would be like, well, at least can I get your number? Like, it could be a little bit more come across as needy or whatever. I still would try at that point, but that's neither here nor there. But it's nice to do it. And when you ask for the number, thing is, is just keep talking. Don't make it some weird exchange where it's like, hey, can I get your number? And then she is putting her number in your phone or however you guys are getting it, or you're getting her number on your phone, and then there's just crickets and you're just like, okay. And then one of the worst mistakes you can do, especially in day game, is that you get her number and then you just, okay, bye. And that just seems like a cheap exchange. It seems like that's all you were there for, which it might Might have been, who knows. But, but it's good to keep talking even after. So points to keep in mind: talk to her during the phone number, then talk to her after. Build rapport, keep it that much better after the exchange. It's going to go way further whether you're in day game or night game. Keep the convo going, keep connecting, keep building. I tend to do an observation during that time. It's like, man, your style is— your style is on point, by the way. I didn't get to say that earlier. If I didn't say anything about her style, or I just like your energy, it's like, that's, that's probably why we're exchanging numbers right now. Whatever it is. It doesn't matter, but just say something to keep it going, and that way it just seems natural. It doesn't seem like some exchange. And then later on, when you get a number, stuff like that, you can always call back to whatever you guys were talking about previously. But that's more in the texting section, and I have a good amount on texting. So, but that would be the next thing. So the reason why it's called number close is because you're closing the opportunity to move to the next thing, which is to the date. Okay, so when you get to the number close, That will close the opportunity to go to the date. Just like with kiss close, when you kiss close her, it gets more sexual from there. It's hard to be sexual with her when— if you haven't kissed her, but that's for the kiss close part. But I just want to say, like, that's, that's the reason why I say close, because it takes you to the next thing. It closes up the conversation chapter and it goes into more of you trying to date her after that, which is good. So it's a very pivotal moment and it's the thing that we want to work on. So when you're on phase 3, This is super huge to work on the number close because that helps you get it. So when you're phase 3, this is gold for you. And then just study this video over and over again if you have to, but just implement it, you know what I'm saying? Just get used to taking your phone out and assuming that she's going to put it in. And however you want to say it, just acknowledge it. It's like, oh yeah, well, we should exchange numbers, or whatever. You can say whatever before you even pull your phone out. I don't like to be super rigid on my method. I do change it up every time. And it's just one of those things like just do whatever feels natural at the moment. So hopefully that helps. And that's what I got for you guys for this video. See you guys in the next.