John Cordero explains how sharing your honest opinions and stories during conversations keeps things from feeling like an interview and creates real connection. Use "because" to link what you think to a personal story, then tease and flirt to stay out of the friend zone.
All right guys, welcome back to another video. Today I want to talk about personal input and what is it. So let's get right into it. Personal input is literally just that— you're giving your personal input on the topic at hand. It is so good to do. If you ask a question and she gives an answer about dogs, then give your personal input about dogs. What I like about this is that you could just be honest, you know what I'm saying, and be like— if you don't know anything about the topic, just be like, well, I don't know much about— let's say you're talking about San Francisco— so I don't know I don't know much about San Francisco, but I've heard that it's really expensive and that there's a lot of homeless people. Is that true? You know, and boom, like you're still giving your personal input on that. And that is a true response for me because I've never been there. So it's one of those things that it's so helpful because if we just get stuck on questions, then that's it. And it could just go into interview mode, which we don't want. And it's just better because it gives your personality, because when you're running an interaction, She needs to get to know you a little bit because we've got to get away from the stranger effect, you know what I'm saying? If we just— we want to make it about her, but we also want to display our personalities, and the best way to do that is with personal input. So if you do it right, it's great, you know what I'm saying? Along with teasing, along with flirting, to really make it go a long way to get the full picture. Because if you just do personal input without flirting, then it just goes friend zone and it goes flat. But if you don't do any personal input, she just won't get to know you, and it just makes for flaky numbers, and that's what we don't want for you either. So just to make it clear, personal input is just your personal opinion on something. The magic word that you can use is because, okay? So give your opinion on something and then say because, and if you can add feelings to it, that's even better, you know what I'm saying? So like going back to the other example, you know, it's like, I really hate dogs because whenever I was little, I got bit and it just really put a fear in me as I was growing on. So I'm very wary when I'm around dogs, especially big dogs. You see how there is, you know, a story behind it and she can actually associate something with you than just, oh, I like dogs or I don't like dogs. That's it. You know what I'm saying? So some, some guys get really caught up with this, but that helps the conversation so much when you give your personal input. And guess what? You're giving her what I call hooks when you do that, because when you say certain things, she can associate as like, oh wow, I actually got bit by a dog too. That's crazy. And now all of a sudden you have something in common. That's really, really good. So that's pretty much what I have for you guys. So be sure to sprinkle in personal input whenever you can. Especially when you're asking a question or making an observation, or if she says something, always give your personal input, and that's gonna help go a long way.
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