personal input

Share your own opinions and stories in conversations to be more memorable and less like a stranger. Use "because" to link preferences to personal moments, like liking football because of playing catch with your dad. Balance openness with mystery, and make sure your sharing prompts her to share back.
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Hey guys, welcome back to another video. Today we're going to be talking about personal input. Personal input is just your personal opinion on the given topic at hand or an observation. There's nothing really tricky about giving personal input, but the thing that we happen to see a lot of is just a lack of personal input from the individual. Personal input is good to mix in the conversation because it shows your opinion and gives off a little bit more of your personality. Which will help her remember you. Giving out personal input will also make her feel like you're less of a stranger because she is getting to know you, but keep in mind that it's good to leave a good amount of mystery about yourself as well. So don't be an open book per se, but if she knows nothing about you, then she will most likely leave you on read if she even did give you her phone number. A good way to use personal input is using the word because. You could say something like, I like football because it reminds me of growing up with my dad. We used to play catch all the time when I was little. Comments like that go a long way and you don't need a bunch of those, but adding the word because makes things more interesting. And it adds another level to your personality that she can potentially get into. Another thing you can add to your personal input is adding some emotional element to what you are saying. This will make you sound genuine and expressive as long as it's coming from a place of high value. For example, you can say something like, I was really pissed off when I found out that they ran out of ice cream. I had to settle for cake instead. Something like that helps show your personality, which is a confident thing to do. So in turn, if you share something about yourself, she will most likely share something about herself, which is exactly what we want her to do. So to recap this, we found out that most guys lack giving personal input, so it's good to sprinkle in some personal input throughout the conversation but still remain a mystery to some degree. So don't be a total open book. We covered adding the word because, because it brings out extra details that she can grab onto To really get to know you. We also covered adding some emotion into personal input, which also shows your personality and opinion on where you stand, which is confident to a woman if done right. That's all I have for this video. See you guys in the next.
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