phase 2

Hey guys, welcome to another video, and today we're going to be talking about phase 2, and this is going to help you see where you're at. So hopefully you were doing the intros and the greetings. This is just going to take it a little bit more and get you in the right direction. So the— for here, instead of ejecting too quickly, stay in the combo anywhere from 30 seconds to 2 minutes. That's going to help you build that muscle a little bit more and get just a little bit more comfortable with being uncomfortable, is what I like to say. So this is going to help with you on just talking, getting better, practicing eye contact, smiling, all those different things. The first part of the phase is still general, so you can talk to guys or girls, it doesn't matter. So you could do this with 5 people, 5 days out of the week, and just pick a time to go out and do it. And that way, it really helps you develop that muscle a little bit more. And so just with the general layer, you can go either way, and it doesn't matter. And then when you add the intent layer, just do 5 gals that you can just go to and then talk to for 30 seconds and just compliment them on their shirt or their jacket or whatever. It doesn't matter whatever they're wearing. You could just say something and then you could say, hey, what are you doing today? Like, what are you up to today? Or like, you know, you could talk about anything. It could be the weather. It could be, you know, just whatever's on your mind. It doesn't matter. But just getting the practice of having that conversation and just getting a little bit further than just saying, hey, how are you doing? Okay, that's the main thing to keep in mind because that's going to help us develop more conversations. And again, Just talk to them for a little bit. I would just make it a little bit intention, like just bring in one thing of intent. Either you say she's pretty, she has an interesting look, or that she's cute. And then you're like, hey, you know, it was great talking with you and nice to meet you. And then you can eject. Okay? So it doesn't have to be complicated. It doesn't have to be anything crazy. But the main thing is that you're just doing that. So we're not trying to get a number or anything like that, but we're just trying to stay in the interaction just long enough. To have a conversation going and then eject, and just get used to that. So that way your brain tells you that it's okay because it is. It really is. It's all natural. It's all good stuff. So pay attention to the lessons that are in here and the lessons before it because they're starting to add up to something that you can actually do. So remembering to smile, have good eye contact, and all those different things will all come together, and and hopefully not in an overwhelming way because it's still. A baby step to just having a decent conversation, which is what we want to do for in this phase. Okay, so let me know how you guys do this and keep it updated in the community, and I'll see you guys in the next video.