John Cordero shows why touching a woman from behind during a cold approach backfires. He demonstrates the mistake, the uncomfortable reaction it gets, and explains that strangers should never initiate contact by touching. The video then shows the right way to approach without invading her space.
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Hey, welcome back to another video, and I just want to say that I want to show you guys how to stop a gal, especially if you're cold approaching. Okay, there's a wrong way to do it and a right way to do it, and so I'm going to show you the wrong way. Just as a rule of thumb, you do not want to touch her. She does not know you. You are strangers. You don't want to touch her and talk to her in the beginning.
So go through.
Hey, I just wanted to say I just thought you were pretty. Like, you're— can I get your number?
Thanks, no, thank you though.
You see what I did there? So I touched her immediately. I didn't give her enough time for her to see me coming, even though she saw me approaching. It's just one of those things that never ever ever touch her, especially from behind. So I'm gonna show you the right way to do it right now.
He didn't give me any notice of that, so that was my natural reaction, and that was the worst.
Awesome, so that's great. So she jumped And her micro expression too was like her eyebrows like went up in corners, and I was like—
I thought that was gonna be your good version of touching, so I was like—
No, no, that was great. That was awesome. I didn't tell her anything of this, so this is awesome. But I'm gonna show you the right way now.