Three "Nice Guy" behaviors that will RUIN your life #relationship

Three behaviors that tank your dating life: constantly seeking approval, being predictable, and saying yes to everything. Confidence, mystery, and boundaries are what actually attract people, not endless niceness.
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Do you wanna know why women choose the bad boy over the nice guy? Okay, I'm going to tell you the uncomfortable truth no one wants to admit, and when you understand this, you're going to completely change your strategy. Real quick, I've been helping men who have struggled with women get the girl they have always wanted. Alright, reason number 1: The bad boy doesn't seek approval. The so-called nice guy is constantly asking. Let's say she already knows how you feel about her, she already knows that you like her, already knows that you wanna date her, Sleep with her, be in a relationship, whatever it may be. You might even double-check and ask, are you okay? Do you like me? Did I do something wrong? But the bad boy isn't asking those questions. He's not consulting the girl about every detail, and that's attractive because it demonstrates confidence. It's not that a woman wants someone who treats them badly; it's that they want someone who doesn't need constant validation. There's a huge difference between being kind and being desperate. The nice guy confuses the two. Most people stop here, but actually, the second reason is even more important than the first. Reason #2: The bad boy is unpredictable. Stop letting her know where you're at and that you're going to text at a certain time. If they already know exactly what you're gonna say, what you're going to do, and how you're gonna do it, then there's no mystery, no excitement, no challenge. And because of this, maybe, She texts you less, and she starts to leave you on read. I've been there. Maybe that's why she isn't very talkative but lights up once she sees someone else. With the bad boy, they never know exactly what he's gonna do, and that uncertainty creates adrenaline. Their brains actually mistake that excitement for attraction. I'm not saying that you should be toxic. I'm saying that if you're so obvious and predictable, you're going to bore them. You gotta maintain a little mystery, surprise, Don't be an open book from day one. Which leads me to the most important reason, and this is the reason few men understand that will undo the previous 2, because— Reason number 3: The nice guy says yes to everything. He accepts any behavior, he forgives everything because he's afraid of losing her. But the bad guy, he has his boundaries and standards. They might not be the best, but he at least sets them. Now, when a woman treats him badly, He walks away. If they don't value his time, he stops giving it. And that makes them respect him. Because subconsciously, they know that if he accepts anything, it's because he has no other option. But if he has standards, it means that he has value. Women don't want someone who treats them badly. They want someone who values themselves enough to stand up for themselves. At the end of the day, it's about being confident, unpredictable, having standards. You can be kind, but don't be desperate. Be interesting, but don't be an open book.
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