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In this brief video, the speaker emphatically advises that all recruiting communications with college soccer coaches should be sent directly by the student‑athlete, not by a parent. He explains that when coaches see emails coming from a parent, they perceive the parent as aggressive—a major red flag that can cause coaches to avoid the athlete altogether. The speaker warns that if a parent feels lazy and forces the child to write the emails, they should abandon the college‑recruiting process and let the child simply enjoy playing soccer for fun. He concludes by offering further assistance through comments or a scheduled call with the athlete and parent.










