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The Call Soccer Guy compares college recruiting to dating: email lots of coaches to create scarcity, respond immediately and professionally, and show genuine interest in programs even if they reject you. Caring behavior opens indirect opportunities.
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Here are 3 ways college soccer recruiting is exactly like dating. Everybody wants what they can't have. So if coaches are getting interested in you and they're not able to get a hold of you, or they hear about other coaches wanting you and then they can't get in touch with you because you're so busy, then of course they want you. Now, of course, if nobody's talking to you, that doesn't count. But if they hear about you, then everybody wants the cool girl or the cool kid in the room. So you really want to email many schools because word gets out. It's like a high school, this called soccer world. Number 2, if you don't text right, you're screwed. The point is that in this world, unlike the dating world, to be fair, I am an expert. So when and how you talk to these coaches and when you respond and how quickly you respond and what you say is really important. Unlike dating, you don't really play a game where you wait to text them. You send a message right away, really professionally, and you say, hey, I am here and I want to show that I'm here for you and I care about you and your school. Number 3 is show them you care. No matter what happens in your dating life one day, showing somebody that you care about them is the first way to get their attention. So even if they end up rejecting you and saying, I don't want to marry you, okay, okay, get recruited, they still may say, you know, you're a great person. I have a friend who likes you. Why don't you come hang out with that friend one day? And then all of a sudden you're dating somebody else. It's the exact same thing in the college recruiting realm. If you want more help and you want to know exactly what to say to these coaches, that's if you had a dating coach. I'm the Call Soccer Guy, and that's what I do now. So comment call, and I will help you as best I can.










