A short YouTube dating-advice clip (creator: Anwar White, uploaded June 5, 2023) urging women to overcome "dating inertia" by proactively attending more social events and using a simple habit called TT1G ("Talk To One Guy"). The speaker prescribes a summer schedule — June: one event/week, July: two events/week, August: three events/week — and three easy openers (compliment, ask for help, ask for a recommendation). For social-anxious viewers she recommends blowing on the left thumb (vagus-nerve calming) and offers an optional daily challenge to talk to one guy per day.
Compliment; ask for help; ask for a recommendation
Blow on the left thumb (to stimulate the vagus nerve)
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I feel like I don't have any red flags because I don't do anything.
Oh, hey, girl. So you're not boring. You're probably just in dating inertia. And dating inertia is all about kind of staying in your everyday of your life and not really dating and getting yourself out there. And that happened a lot, especially in the pandemic and post pandemic, and people just kind of stayed in their pandemic ways. But, girl, it's the summer and you get to do something different. And I want to challenge you to get out of your dating inertia. It's what I call TT1G, which is talk to one guy. So every week, you should be going out at least one event in June. I want you to go out on two events in July and three events in August every week. Okay? And in each of those events, you need to TT1G. You need to talk to one guy. And the best way to do this three ways. You can either compliment him, you can either ask for help, or you can ask for a recommendation. Right? What's an example of this? Hey, you look really good in that shirt. Where'd you get it from? Or asking for help. Hey, let's say you're at the gym. Hey, can you help me put this rate on here? Or ask for a recommendation? Let's say you're at a bar. Hey, what would you recommend that I drink? Those are ways to initiate and what I call open the space. And this is how you're going to meet people out in real life. Because I know most of you are really tired of the dating apps. And so we're going to be out here in the summer, and we're going to help you get your guy. All right, TT1G. Now, for the girls that have a little bit of social anxiety. I hear you. I feel you. I'm not going to be insensitive towards you, but one of the ways, one of the tricks that I have for y' all is to blow on your left thumb when you do that because it's connected to your vagus nervous system. It is going to help reduce that social anxiety and that internal stress so that you can start talking with as many people as possible for the master's students, for the overachiever girls. If you want to go the extra mile here, then challenge yourself to talk to one guy a day. By the end of the summer, trust me, you will probably get your guy. Hope this helps.
